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expectations'/><category term='successful marketing'/><title type='text'>Achievers Blog by Coaching Confidential</title><subtitle type='html'>Quick Articles  For  Achieving  Success  In  Life  And Work</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>95</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2962176968968134988</id><published>2010-03-04T09:46:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:25:18.753-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sabotaging success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve positive results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='habitual thinking'/><title type='text'>Is Your Thinking Only Habit Driven?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your Thoughts Are Either&lt;br /&gt;Boosting Positive Results&lt;br /&gt;Or Sabotaging You&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do you simply allow your mind to habitually lead you throughout your daily life? Or, are you consciously present in your thinking and self-talk?&lt;/strong&gt; Take a look at how your thought processes can impact the results you experience. You may be sabotaging your potential success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do you know that every cell in your body is affected by every thought you have and by every word you say to yourself?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have a choice as to what you think and the results you want to accomplish by your thoughts and self-talk. But, because we tend to rely on old patterns of thought (habits), it is easy to sabotage the outcomes we would prefer to experience. In other words, what you think and how you process your thinking may not always work in your best interest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For example, ask yourself these revealing questions:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I mentally berate myself when I make a mistake?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I accept what I say when it is negative?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I really know when my outlook needs a tune up?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I skip the solution when I suspect a problem?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I identify why an idea can't work before I recognize why it can?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I struggle through projects when others breeze through them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I disparage or discredit my feelings?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I attempt positive, action-oriented goals, yet they evaporate?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Do I know how to effectively implement positive, lasting change?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Whether or not the thinking or self-talk you engage in is good or bad, it impacts what you believe, the attitudes and feelings you hold, the actions you take, and the results you produce&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you consider well the thoughts you choose to engage in, you then implement a constructive approach toward the outcome you will experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This conscious thought process can be one of the strongest, most effective components you can implement for personal growth and self-management&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you are searching for a profitable work-from-home Internet business, check out these two recommended possibilities: &lt;a href="http://www.dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2962176968968134988?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2962176968968134988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2962176968968134988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2010/03/is-your-thinking-only-habit-driven.html' title='Is Your Thinking Only Habit Driven?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2803982476480315117</id><published>2010-02-05T12:22:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:26:30.828-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='negative thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='law of attraction'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success minded'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to think for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mindset for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='successful results'/><title type='text'>Engage 8 Mindset Secrets For Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Engage 8 Mindset Secrets For Success:&lt;br /&gt;Attack Your Success Journey At The Source&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Success begins from within the mind. The capacity of the human brain is absolutely amazing, and when nurtured and challenged it can serve us beyond our wildest imaginations. To help advance your personal and career success, begin to engage these 8 Mindset Secrets&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Success begins from within&lt;/strong&gt;. To positively change and grow you must truly realize that success is a reflection of your inner world. Nurture your mind and the information you choose to process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. The level of your success is determined by your choice of thought&lt;/strong&gt;. Positive thinking and actions of integrity beget positive results. Negative thinking and limiting or defeating actions beget negative results. Consider well the pattern of your thinking, for your thoughts shape the life you choose to live.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Thinking patterns are habits. Like most habits, it is possible to change the ones you live by&lt;/strong&gt;. That includes what you think about. You can remove negative thinking habits by practicing mental discipline and conditioning on a daily basis. Choose to replace negative thinking with positive, supportive thoughts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;When a self-limiting or disempowering thought comes to mind, replace it with a positive, productive and inspiring one. As you develop this nurturing habit of capturing worthwhile and energizing thoughts, negative ones will be inhibited and begin to lose their power.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. A critical component of a successful mind is self-image&lt;/strong&gt;. An immediate way to begin addressing your self-image is to take note of the mental pictures you have of yourself. Are these pictures in alignment with what you actually want for your life? Determine the self-image you want and then practice visualizing that repeatedly in your mind, refining it as you go along. If you are diligent in this process you will notice a positive change in how you perceive yourself, your confidence level will increase, and the belief in yourself will dramatically help you achieve your goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. You must be persistent in developing the successful mindset&lt;/strong&gt;. It will not happen immediately. If you reinforce your pursuit on a daily basis for at least 21 to 30 days you have an excellent chance of reaching the all important subconscious mind. This concentrated effort on a given change of thought will reward you for your discipline and conditioning. When properly engaged, you will notice a positive change in the way you think, feel, and act. The degree to which this occurs varies for each person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. What you think about and believe is what you attract into your life&lt;/strong&gt;. For that reason, it is very important to realize the power of what is referred to as the Law of Attraction. Respect it and focus on what you really want. When you are authentically positive and inspired to accomplish something, you will attract that to you --- this includes the people you chose to have around you. With positive expectancy and persistence you will attract opportunities that will allow your goal to be realized.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. If you set a goal for something you truly want and you believe full heartily in it, then doggedly go after it&lt;/strong&gt;. The success-minded achiever makes sure that the goal is repeatedly brought to mind throughout each day. Cleverly figure out ways to remind yourself of your goal again and again. When you concentrate your mental and physical energy on single purpose, dormant forces begin to surface and re-ignite to support your desired outcome. Choose your goals carefully and engage your powers of visualization, affirmations, positive patterns of self-talk, and act-as-if strategies to feed your mind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. The mind hold a tremendous desire to be positively stimulated and to experience success&lt;/strong&gt;. The mind thirsts for your instructions and follow-through to achieve. Again, what you put in will gage the results you derive. So select your choices carefully for a positive outcome. When you passionately pursue your goals your mind will support you and attract opportunities to fulfill your desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you are searching for a profitable and easy work-from-home income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.taxi2ezwealth.com/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2803982476480315117?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2803982476480315117'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2803982476480315117'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2010/02/engage-8-mindset-secrets-for-success.html' title='Engage 8 Mindset Secrets For Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7143488068630626032</id><published>2010-02-04T14:25:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:27:25.214-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to deal with fatigue'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feeling fatigued'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feeling fatigue'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental fatigue'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to feel invigorated'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fatigue'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to feel mentally sharp'/><title type='text'>Conquer The Fatigue Habit</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Conquer The Fatigue Habit:&lt;br /&gt;Take Control With A Positive Perspective&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More often than you can imagine, fatigue may be nothing more than an annoying habit&lt;/strong&gt;. We are not talking about physical exhaustion from hard labor here or a chemical imbalance. This reference is about the mental fatigue caused by reinforcing self-limiting habits that are counterproductive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is so easy to establish habits of boring, dull, or even down right negative attitudes and routines&lt;/strong&gt;. This happens when you choose not to exercise control over your mental health. It is a rut that allows for worry and negative thinking, which can eventually undermine self-confidence, lower self-esteem, and even cause you to feel demoralized. In turn, this reinforces the belief that you are feeling fatigued or sluggish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;You have a choice in how you feel and how you view the world. It is an illusion to believe that you have no options.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;People who really enjoy life and capture the best there is to experience have learned to exercise self-discipline and manage their lives&lt;/strong&gt;. If you have regularly felt fatigued from self-defeating beliefs and thoughts since you cannot remember when, it is imperative that you finally recognize your actions and decide to do something about it. The past does not have to determine your future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are consistently experiencing overwhelming fatigue, it is time for you to find out why. It is always a smart move to consult a physician to clearly rule out any fundamental physical or mental concerns. If your doctor does not identify a serious cause for your fatigue, then it may be time for some self-imposed changes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One's feeling of mental fatigue can quickly take a change for the positive, as illustrated in the following scenario:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's say you are continually sensing fatigue and you cannot imagine feeling any other way. Now, the phone rings and you answer it with a less than enthusiastic demeanor. The caller identifies herself as an attorney for someone close to your family who has died. You think to yourself, "I was feeling lousy before, now I'm feeling even worse". But then the attorney informs you that the deceased did not have any remaining family to leave his fortune. And, he chose to leave his entire estate of two million dollars to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yep, in an instant you became a multimillionaire. Are you still feeling fatigued? Imagine that, all of sudden you have chosen to no longer feel bored and tired. You are now exhilarated and motivated. Where did that reserve of energy come from? Has your perspective changed?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;One of the most effective ways to offset mental fatigue is to be clearly aware of the thoughts and choices you make&lt;/strong&gt;. When you consciously decide to manage your decisions and your life, you are no longer waiting for things to randomly happen for you to feel better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is your choice to be active, creative, and joyous&lt;/strong&gt;. It is a matter of consciously taking control. Why waste precious time relinquishing yourself to happenstance and weariness? Just as you can succumb to self-imposed fatigue, you can choose to engage the habit of being mentally stronger and happier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you are searching for a profitable and easy work-from-home income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.taxi2ezwealth.com/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7143488068630626032?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7143488068630626032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7143488068630626032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2010/02/conquer-fatigue-habit.html' title='Conquer The Fatigue Habit'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-900157097825368908</id><published>2010-01-09T14:07:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:28:16.802-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to prepare for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to rid overwhelm'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='eliminate mental clutter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to stop feeling overwhelmed'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to overcome doubt'/><title type='text'>Transform Overwhelm and Setbacks Into Positive Outcomes</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff;"&gt;Learn To Prepare Yourself For Outward Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Discover how to overcome doubt, mental clutter, tolerations, and resistance that undermine, distract, and sabotage your personal growth and actions for success&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is possible to turn overwhelm, mistakes and setbacks into successful change by using these struggles to your advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, it is important to understand that if you are going to transform from a difficult course to a path of positive patterns, the shift must originate from within you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To positively change and grow you need to realize that success or failure is a reflection of your authentic inner world&lt;/strong&gt;. What exists within you is what will be reflected outwardly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Your priorities and actions must be set by clear thinking and a productive mindset. Before you begin structuring your outside world, prepare yourself within. Your values, beliefs, knowledge, the way you think, and the choices you make will determine the results you derive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Implementing this inner approach for positive change will help to create the foundation and sustaining motivation for successful action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;As you tap into more clarity of thought, you begin to identify the gap between where you are and where you want to be&lt;/strong&gt;. The steps you need to take to achieve your desired change become apparent and constructive action is more promising.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you learn to transform your struggles to outward successes by working from within, you establish focus and become willing, ready and motivated to make the necessary commitment and changes for advancing personal growth and actions for the outcome you want to achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a simple online income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-900157097825368908?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/900157097825368908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/900157097825368908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2010/01/transform-overwhelm-and-setbacks-into.html' title='Transform Overwhelm and Setbacks Into Positive Outcomes'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5533379559512550887</id><published>2010-01-01T17:36:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:05:24.701-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self-discovery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='major areas of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set life priorities'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to make life changes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self discovery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to assess life priorities'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='setting goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to evaluate my life'/><title type='text'>Can You Identify Your Life Priorities?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;For More Life Satisfaction,&lt;br /&gt;Answer These 8 Revealing Questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Are you experiencing a fulfilled life? Do the different areas of your life seem to work in harmony? Taking a closer look at how you view the priorities in your life may bring about some surprising answers&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;To help establish an overall view of your present life, take a moment to survey 8 major areas that impact the lives of most people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;There is no particular order to the 8 areas of life. It is more important with each area that you earnestly identify your present status and then clearly consider your desired level of satisfaction. When considering each area of life, you may notice that perhaps some changes might be to your liking. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In working through this process, many people gain a greater insight as to where more balance may be desired. "Balance" here refers to your particular formula for life satisfaction, not that each area equals the other. Each of us experiences growth and change, and sometimes we get stuck. So, it is important to be flexible, to periodically reassess your current picture, and then adjust your actions to achieve your desired level of satisfaction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;As you honestly assess your situation, you will increasingly realize that each of the 8 areas are interconnected and impact one another to some degree. Only you can determine the level to which you want to move forward, your timeline, and the balance that works best for you. However, keep in mind that stepping outside your comfort zone and stretching yourself can help to create greater achievement and satisfaction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What are your answers to these 8 primary areas of your life?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Family&lt;/strong&gt; -- How are your relationships with family members? How can you improve and/or provide more support for those relationships?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Financial&lt;/strong&gt; -- What is your present financial picture? How can you improve your money management? Do you have a plan for your financial future?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Personal Growth and/or Spirituality&lt;/strong&gt; -- Do you advance your personal development on a regular basis? If you are so inclined, do you nurture your spiritual growth?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Physical Environments&lt;/strong&gt; -- How do you feel about the comfort level of your home and work surroundings? How do you manage "clutter"? What improvements do you want to make?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;. Physical Health&lt;/strong&gt; -- Do you address the critical areas, like eating habits, exercise, sleep, weight, and hygiene? When was your last physical exam? What health-related improvements do you want to make?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Recreational and Creativity&lt;/strong&gt; -- Do you take time for personal leisure? Do you relax and have fun? Do you have creative outlets in your life? How would you improve the quality of these areas?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Social and Relational&lt;/strong&gt; -- Have you nurtured friendships that bring you enjoyment and support? Do you have a more personal intimate relationship? What improvements would you make?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. Vocational&lt;/strong&gt; -- How does your present vocation compare to your desired career? Are you advancing in your work environment? What changes would bring you more satisfaction professionally, personally, and financially?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a simple online income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5533379559512550887?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5533379559512550887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5533379559512550887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2010/01/can-you-identify-your-life-priorities.html' title='Can You Identify Your Life Priorities?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-298766121632435415</id><published>2009-12-01T09:32:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:33:03.247-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan of action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='successful goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to create a plan of action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action plan'/><title type='text'>Goal Setting Requires A Plan Of Action</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #990000;"&gt;One Step Forward, Two Steps Back&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;. . . that is exactly what happens when your goal does not include a clear plan of action&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Of course, you must first set an attainable goal that you truly want to achieve, one that you can passionately commit to accomplishing. Be sure to write down every detail that must be a part of what you envision for a successful result. Doing this the first time can seem a bit involved, but it is well worth the effort.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;After you have established your goal and identified the necessary components, then organize a path to achieve the goal into sequential stages. Create an action plan to achieve each step along the way. Think of this as mapping the path to your destination. Also be sure to set a predetermined milestone that clearly marks when you have successfully completed each stage. Take the opportunity to celebrate your success when you reach each milestone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The plan of action approach to reaching a goal provides a constant reference of what you have completed and what still needs to be done&lt;/strong&gt;. Otherwise, a goal can sometimes seem out of reach or elusive. Attaining the ultimate goal is unlikely if you are floundering, backtracking, or running in circles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;If you need a place to begin the process, start by writing down your goal in specific and motivating language. For each goal write down how you plan to achieve your desired outcome. Include time frames and clear milestones to measure your progress. As you implement your plan expect to make modifications to shore up or improve the route. Allow yourself to be somewhat flexible if you find a better way to reach your goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;When you become proficient at goal setting, the process becomes second nature. But, always make sure you have an action plan for each goal and a clear target in mind. You will soon discover how you can interconnect different goals, whereby they support one another for overall successful achievement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a simple online income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-298766121632435415?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/298766121632435415'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/298766121632435415'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/12/goal-setting-requires-plan-of-action.html' title='Goal Setting Requires A Plan Of Action'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3703038034814958541</id><published>2009-11-20T14:32:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:34:13.382-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be more successful'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feeling stuck'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to stop feeling stuck'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='negative feelings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='learning to let go'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='a positive outlook'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mindset for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be more positive'/><title type='text'>Make Room For Positive Living</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Conquer The Negatives&lt;br /&gt;To Truly Experience Positive Living&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you are struggling to generate the gumption to move forward because of negative baggage, it's time to take positive action.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;You may be dragging around feelings from a disappointment, a failure, or a negative image from the past which is getting in your way. If that's the case, recognize it, deal with it constructively, and decide to make a positive change in your thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Now, what we're talking about here is what many people refer to as being in a rut, lacking motivation, feeling stuck, or focusing on negative emotions. A circumstance that is usually, more or less, a short term occurrence. If, however, you are dealing with a concern that goes much deeper than this, do not hesitate to take healthy action and ask for help from a qualified source.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Negative feelings and images that fester and are constantly revisited can markedly stall attempts to begin fresh and move forward&lt;/strong&gt;. Both negative and positive self-images are very powerful, and attempting to live with both simultaneously is a clash of brain power that simply doesn’t work. Think of it as one cancelling out the other. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unless you decide to take control, negative thinking and images have a way of continually bombarding your outlook toward a downward spiral. Such thoughts just seem to feed on themselves, resulting in behavior that only supports being stuck in your tracks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A conscious choice to release negative thoughts and images must be made in order to allow for new and positive experiences to occur&lt;/strong&gt;. Doing this gives you the power to let go of limiting beliefs and to change your perspective. It usually requires you to step outside your comfort zone — but that is where most success really takes hold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;In summary, if you find that your thoughts and actions are holding you back from gaining positive traction, then it's time to make a change. Embrace the concept that the more your thoughts are focused on the positive, the less room there is for the negatives to creep in and take hold&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Conquer The Negatives And Make Room For Positive Living!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a simple online income source, check out &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;a super EZ marketing program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You keep 100% of your sales and earnings are paid within 24 hours! Go to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyincomemarketing.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DailyIncomeMarketing.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; --- Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/YourIncomeNow&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3703038034814958541?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3703038034814958541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3703038034814958541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/11/make-room-for-positive-living.html' title='Make Room For Positive Living'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-403891111854937036</id><published>2009-10-21T14:09:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:35:07.247-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to visualize a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to use the mind for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to use my imagination to achieve a goal'/><title type='text'>2 Success Tools: Imagination and Visualization</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Use Your Imagination&lt;br /&gt;To Visualize Successful Results&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Before you can accomplish a goal it is imperative that you clearly see the goal in your mind&lt;/strong&gt;. This includes using your imagination to visualize the goal as already successfully achieved. And, it is important to keep this process as simple as possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;One reason people fail to see a goal through to completion is because they tend to complicate the process&lt;/strong&gt;. Eventually you will want to fashion your goal with more details. But, you need to establish a clear and simple message that the mind can easily and quickly visualize over and over again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Consider this approach for using your imagination&lt;br /&gt;to achieve a goal:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;Author: Max Steingart - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/yzkc9p3"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;http://tinyurl.com/yzkc9p3&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Your mind is your mental workshop. You can build anything you want in it. Visualize what you want. See it, feel it, believe in it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make your mental blueprint, and then begin construction. See things as you would have them be instead of as they are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Use your imagination to perceive your new reality, even when it is not fully materialized. Remember, you must first clearly see a thing in your mind before you can do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your imagination will show you how to turn possibility into reality.&lt;br /&gt;The beginning of your success is in your imagination.&lt;br /&gt;First think, then organize your thoughts into plans.&lt;br /&gt;Then transform your thoughts into reality by taking some positive action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;See the things you want as already yours.&lt;br /&gt;Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, as already in your possession.&lt;br /&gt;Picture yourself as having already achieved your goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dreams and ideas can cross continents and oceans.&lt;br /&gt;They go anywhere you can go.&lt;br /&gt;What you see is what you get."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-403891111854937036?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/403891111854937036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/403891111854937036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/10/2-success-tools-imagination-and.html' title='2 Success Tools: Imagination and Visualization'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7782297486701887967</id><published>2009-10-12T12:54:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:35:59.160-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be more successful'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve happiness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what is goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve more'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='why set goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the purpose of goals'/><title type='text'>Create More Rewards Than Regrets With Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Well Established Goals&lt;br /&gt;Lead To Greater Success&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Establishing goals can be one of the most significant actions a person can take toward realizing a life of happiness and fulfillment. Without clarifying what you want to accomplish and a plan to achieve specific results, it is just too easy to float from one event to another with no lasting success&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;So often children seem to bounce from one activity to another, believing that life will simply go on forever. And, unfortunately, many of these same kids become adults without learning how to infuse definite life goals. That is, establishing and taking action on goals that will help create a life where there are more rewards than regrets.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here are 2 major reasons for establishing goals:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1.&lt;/strong&gt; A goal provides clarity and a vision to work toward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.&lt;/strong&gt; Well-established goals supported by committed action usually leads to greater fulfillment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you think establishing goals in your life is too much work or not worth the effort, you couldn't be more wrong&lt;/strong&gt;. All you have to do is look at anyone today or in history who has achieved any significant success and you will find that setting and pursuing goals was involved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The process and value of employing goals can work for every individual&lt;/strong&gt;. To create and achieve a goal is simply a choice that has the potential for lasting rewards. If you have the desire to accomplish something in your life, no matter how small or how big, and you take positive action to attain it, then you are pursuing a goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Make sure that each selected goal is meaningful to you and that you are willing to see it through until it is achieved. Following this approach will certainly contribute to a life of more rewards than regrets&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7782297486701887967?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7782297486701887967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7782297486701887967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/10/create-more-rewards-than-regrets-with.html' title='Create More Rewards Than Regrets With Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-6485044339584070681</id><published>2009-10-05T17:20:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:37:06.312-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='set goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='set and achieve goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='why set goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><title type='text'>The Fast Track To Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;Setting And Actively Pursuing A Goal&lt;br /&gt;Absolutely Accelerates Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal.”&lt;br /&gt;- Thomas Jefferson&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goals charge us with desire and push us outside our comfort zones, causing us to challenge ourselves to grow and achieve&lt;/strong&gt;. They give us the momentum to advance even when things are distressing or seemingly insurmountable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;The individual with a strong goal and a clear vision of a desired outcome deeply embeds potential success in the subconscious mind. Thus, allowing the mind’s generative and sustaining power to attain goals in the least amount of time and with the least amount of physical exertion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strong, clear goals accelerate our subconscious activity, causing us to unconsciously zero in on our target 24 hours a day 365 days a year. Little by little you achieve actualization, as all your abilities and mental powers become engaged to that end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is shocking, but in North America today:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only 5 percent of the population has formed goals for their future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only 1 percent have actually taken the effort to write their goals down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nearly 95 percent of the people in our society do not have clear, concise, written goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The average person spends more time planning their vacation than their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Without goals and plans to reach them, you are like a ship without a rudder . . . sometimes drifting aimlessly and sometimes going full steam ahead in random directions&lt;/strong&gt;. People without purpose accomplish very little over a lifetime. They tend to be very busy, always moving, going, spending, and doing . . . confusing busyness with accomplishment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goals can only be achieved once they’re conceived&lt;/strong&gt;. If you haven’t created your goals, then you’re taking action in random areas of existence and completing random tasks. You are not accomplishing and advancing your potential.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-6485044339584070681?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6485044339584070681'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6485044339584070681'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/10/fast-track-to-success.html' title='The Fast Track To Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2742053128910487689</id><published>2009-09-11T13:11:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:37:56.968-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to do positive self talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive change'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how does self talk work'/><title type='text'>Self-Talk – Every Thought And Word Has Power</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;Positive Self-Talk&lt;br /&gt;Is Your Secret Tool For Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do you know that every cell in your body is affected by every thought you have ... every word you say to yourself?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Whether or not the Self-Talk you engage in is good or bad, it affects what you believe, the attitudes and feelings you hold, the actions you take, and the results you produce.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A positive pattern of Self-Talk is one of the strongest, most effective components of personal growth and self-management&lt;/strong&gt;. When you take the time to consider what you’re about to say (and its potential impact), it is important to understand that you are imprinting those very words as “the gospel” on your subconscious mind -- where habits are strongly embedded.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For some perspective on how you talk to yourself, ask these questions and see how you immediately respond:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;• Do you mentally berate yourself when you make a mistake?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I accept what you say when it is negative?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I really know when your outlook needs a tune up?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I skip the solution when you suspect a problem?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I identify why an idea can't work before you recognize why it can?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I struggle through projects when others breeze through them?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I disparage or discredit your feelings?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I attempt positive, action-oriented goals, yet they evaporate?&lt;br /&gt;• Do I know how to effectively implement positive, lasting change?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Learn how to properly feed your brain with right thoughts and words, and you will discover a powerful method for positively impacting your life forever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here are 5 reasons that positive Self-Talk actually works:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1.&lt;/strong&gt; The positive and effective use of Self-Talk, silently or aloud, can dramatically impact the subconscious mind for lasting change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.&lt;/strong&gt; You actually activate healthy, productive chemicals and electrical responses in the brain that spontaneously work for you … instead of against you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.&lt;/strong&gt; Positive Self-Talk gives you the essential, action-focused means to make the changes you want and need … even if you have not been able to accomplish that in the past.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4.&lt;/strong&gt; You learn a practical, easy way to live your life by active intent … rather than passive acceptance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5.&lt;/strong&gt; You strengthen your will, beef up your success-oriented self-concept, and gain deep-rooted self-assurance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For practically every habit you want to change, you can create a better, more productive Self-Talk that will advance desired change and results&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2742053128910487689?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2742053128910487689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2742053128910487689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/09/self-talk-every-thought-word-has-power.html' title='Self-Talk – Every Thought And Word Has Power'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5177627326688685914</id><published>2009-09-03T10:36:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:38:52.394-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dependability'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='irresponsibility'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be dependable'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be accountable'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how can I be more responsible'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='responsibility'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accountability'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be successful'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adaptability'/><title type='text'>The Responsibility Factor For Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Are Your Actions Mostly&lt;br /&gt;Responsible Or Irresponsible?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The answer to the question "are your actions mostly responsible or irresponsible?” can actually be quite revealing. And the right answer is a serious one if your intention is to experience personal and career success&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;When you commit to a project or task, do you believe it is important to follow through until it is properly completed? Or, does your accountability only last as long as you feel the task is fun or new?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;If the responsibility you take on only seems to work until the initial excitement wears off, it is a pretty safe bet you have a habit of eventually being irresponsible with most tasks. And, if that’s true, that behavior often bleeds over to your interaction with people. You can consider this irresponsibility as a red flag that your actions are simply not going to lead to long-term successful outcomes. That is, unless you truly decide to change your behavior when it comes to fulfilling responsibility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The person who sees commitment as a responsibility to complete a task, even when confronted with obstacles, certainly has a greater likelihood of experiencing successful results. This individual understands what it means to be accountable for their actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The difference between acting responsibly and being irresponsible usually comes down to a person’s understanding of commitment and adaptability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Where do you fit in with the following definitions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;Commitment:&lt;br /&gt;a pledge or promise to do something (for oneself or for others)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Adaptable:&lt;br /&gt;able to adjust oneself to new or changed circumstances&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dependable:&lt;br /&gt;that can be depended on; trustworthy; reliable&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Responsible:&lt;br /&gt;involving accountability, obligation, or duties&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Irresponsible:&lt;br /&gt;lacking a sense of responsibility; unreliable&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you are at a crossroads about what responsibility means to you, carefully consider the results you ultimately want to achieve&lt;/strong&gt;. The actions you take are observed by people who can support you if they feel you are worthy of their time and effort. You do not live in a vacuum. In other words, people who gain the success they want generally do not accomplish it alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Also, there can be a strong connection with self-esteem and honestly being a responsible person&lt;/strong&gt;. Do you want to be the kind of person that you can depend on when tasks need to be done? Do you want others to see you as being dependable? If not, your journey toward success will be a constant struggle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5177627326688685914?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5177627326688685914'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5177627326688685914'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/09/responsibility-factor-for-success.html' title='The Responsibility Factor For Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-191415865234786394</id><published>2009-08-04T16:16:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:40:04.826-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='income opportunities'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work at home'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home based business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='work from home'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to choose a home based business'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to begin a home based business'/><title type='text'>Investigate A Work From Home Business</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900; font-size: 180%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Today's Entrepreneur Operates&lt;br /&gt;A Home Based Business&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Imagine for a moment that you are sitting in your comfortable office at home. You are beginning the day with enthusiasm about the prospects of what your personal efforts will produce. At your discretion, you decide what, how and when the necessary tasks will be done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;You understand that your income is contingent upon your performance as an entrepreneur. You have chosen to take on responsibilities that will certainly be hampered by challenges and setbacks. But, you have a mindset of positive expectancy and you plan your work accordingly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Careful consideration has been given to the status of your personal finances and how you will handle expenses and surprise expenditures. Your goals have been realistically set and your plans to succeed are prepared with confidence and a measure of flexibility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your loved ones understand the purpose of your endeavor and have agreed to support you.&lt;br /&gt;What was just described may seem like a fairytale set up for changing one’s life from living under the structure of management in a traditional job. But, right now, people all over the world are making this sweeping conversion to home based businesses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;In fact, men and women from all walks of life are quietly amassing handsome incomes by hunkering down with their work from home enterprises. At no time in our history has there been such a clear opportunity to take action for operating one’s own small business. The technology that is now available, such as the Internet and marketing techniques, provides a very real means for competing with larger businesses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;To get started in your own home based business there are several fundamental guidelines that should be considered. First, it is important to research the business possibilities that fit well for a work at home enterprise. Then decide which one best matches with your interests, abilities, and personality. Next, realistically set your goals, plan your strategy, and carefully put into action the details of your new enterprise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Today there are hundreds, if not thousands, of well-designed marketing programs that are ready to be implemented. In other words, unless you are a start-from-scratch person, many of these marketing programs are ready and mostly work on ‘autopilot’. In this case, the work is dedicated to driving targeted traffic to the program you are operating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is one word of caution that unfortunately needs to be addressed. That is, while there are so many outstanding business opportunities to choose from, there are also those that are not above board (they are scams). When you finally find the enterprise that suits your needs, absolutely do your research and make sure your choice is reputable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Keep in mind that to start a business from home does not mean “all or nothing at all.” Most people begin their enterprises on a part-time basis and continue working their jobs until the home business provides the greater income.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bottom line goal of having a home based business is to know that your time and energy is dedicated toward a potential income that has no ceiling, the chance to live without the constraints of financial worry, and to give you the time to do the things you truly enjoy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-191415865234786394?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/191415865234786394'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/191415865234786394'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/08/working-from-home-can-provide-income.html' title='Investigate A Work From Home Business'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-197055945724822244</id><published>2009-08-01T10:20:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:40:48.319-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='automated marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to find an affiliate program'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to find a network marketing program'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to make money online'/><title type='text'>Internet Marketing Requires Commitment</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Avoid Online Marketing Programs&lt;br /&gt;That Say 'NO Work Required'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;If you are like many Internet marketers you have forged ahead with hopes of earning immediate and long-term income from your online efforts. To pursue that goal is certainly admirable, and an achievable one. That is, if you associate yourself with the right marketing program.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;It can be pretty tough to narrow your search to find that ‘right marketing program’. Of course, every affiliate or network marketing program claims that they have the best product and the biggest income potential. And, unfortunately, the claim that these benefits are possible with ‘NO WORK REQUIRED’ is appearing more frequently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Finding the online marketing system that has a product that is in demand is one thing, but finding one that doesn’t require any work on your part . . . well, that simply isn’t realistic. Every truly successful Internet marketer will tell you that the income can be phenomenal. But to do it right does require constructive and consistent effort to accomplish positive results.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Once you pull your head out of the clouds and clearly accept that any worthwhile online marketing program does require commitment and earnest action (work), then you’re on the right track. And, any program that professes otherwise should be a warning to you that something is not right. If they’re proclaiming one ‘untruth’, how many more are hidden under their guise?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Now, that doesn’t mean that a well designed and potentially profitable Internet marketing program can’t run like a finely tuned machine. In fact, that is precisely what you should be looking for . . . a program that is ‘systems based’ (mostly automated). This will vastly decrease labor-intensive involvement and allow you to concentrate your time in the areas that will produce the most return on your investment (ROI). A ‘systems’ approach does not rely on a human to complete every step from promotion to finalizing the sale.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;In other words, find a marketing program that has an in-demand product, is forthcoming about the effort required, and has pretty much automated each step within its marketing funnel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People from all walks of life are definitely earning handsome incomes from marketing products or services on the Internet. But these folks entered the arena with realistic expectations and did their research to find a systems based program with an in-demand product(s). And, they clearly understand to avoid any marketing program that in any way declares that there is ‘NO WORK REQUIRED’.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-197055945724822244?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/197055945724822244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/197055945724822244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/08/successful-internet-marketing-requires.html' title='Internet Marketing Requires Commitment'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7606925756509168757</id><published>2009-07-20T15:24:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:41:41.269-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='the max pro system'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how be successful online'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='darren salkeld'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='maxpro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to be an internet success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='maxpro system'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='max pro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what is maxpro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what is max pro'/><title type='text'>Automate Your Online Marketing Business</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3 Successful Guidelines of&lt;br /&gt;Internet Marketing&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;- as practiced by The MaxPro System&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;In successful Internet marketing there are fundamental guidelines that clearly work to your advantage. Three of the basic guidelines are to sell big ticket items, plan your work to do it once, and implement what the successful marketers have already learned.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;MaxPro System&lt;/a&gt; created by Darren Salkeld is a prime example of how these guidelines are practiced. This particular Internet affiliate business was designed for work at home entrepreneurs who want to earn extra money part-time or for those who want to implement a full time online business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The guidelines that are most successful fall within an automated (systems) approach to online marketing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Here are the 3 Basic Guidelines for&lt;br /&gt;Successful Internet Marketing:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Sell Big Ticket items&lt;/strong&gt;. Whenever possible, avoid spending your time and energy on small ticket products, such as $7 and $17 ebooks. Think about that for a moment. How many of these low priced items would you need to sell to make about $1000?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wouldn’t it be better, for example, to expend the same effort to sell a product at $250? Then you only need 4 sales to reach $1,000. The MaxPro System adheres to that guideline, and it is a huge marketing advantage for participants of the program.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Plan your work to do it once&lt;/strong&gt;. In other words, set up your system so it can work on autopilot. The most successful marketing operations complete their sales with a systems approach, thus avoiding the need to keep repeating a labor intensive process with each transaction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, the systems techniques used in marketing on the Internet are surprisingly simple to apply. The MaxPro System masterfully utilizes this approach to attract prospects, present the offer, and to complete one sale after another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Implement what the successful marketers have already learned&lt;/strong&gt;. Why bother to “reinvent the wheel.”? Many marketers have gone before you and they have worked through the challenges of trial and error.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The creator of the MaxPro System, Darren Salkeld, spent untold hours studying the masters and applying their best methods for online marketing success. And, as a result, he has quietly become an Internet millionaire. Darren has since proceeded to teach his successful marketing steps to individuals who want to prosper as he has.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Darren Salkeld’s superbly designed “marketing funnel” incorporates the 3 basic guidelines previously mentioned, plus unique techniques that he has developed. In fact, he has so carefully set up the automated MaxPro System that the affiliate's primary job is to generate targeted traffic to their individually owned website addresses. And, Darren made sure that thorough training in properly building traffic is provided to each affiliate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Thousands of people each year attempt to take part in marketing products and services on the Internet. However, only a handful take the time to learn the fundamental guidelines that lead to potential success online. Unless you are a super savvy computer geek and a marketing guru, your best approach may very well be to align yourself with a proven automated marketing system.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7606925756509168757?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7606925756509168757'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7606925756509168757'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/07/automate-your-online-marketing-business.html' title='Automate Your Online Marketing Business'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3687277917620810899</id><published>2009-07-09T17:27:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:43:20.488-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accomplish a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve a goal. a mindset for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to maintain motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self-motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='prepare for success'/><title type='text'>Kick Your Mindset Into Gear for Goal Achievement</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Do you have a crystal clear vision of what you want?&lt;br /&gt;. . . or how to visualize your goal?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;The person who has followed their dream and become successful in their pursuit knows the initial and sustaining steps toward success. They have clearly established a vision of exactly what they want to achieve, prepared a plan of action, and have figured out how to maintain their motivation to accomplish their goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;One of the biggest reasons most people struggle to reach their destination is they simply do not have a crystal clear vision of what they want or how to visualize their goal as already attained.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Unfortunately, many of us were not taught as children how to think about the process of achieving our dreams. However, it is never too late to learn how to accomplish desired results when the goal is important enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you truly want to pursue a goal, you must, without reservation, believe that you want the expected result and know that you deserve it.&lt;/strong&gt; Think about that last statement for a moment. To know that you truly believe in what you want and that you deserve the end result can sometimes be a tricky mind game. Take the time to make sure you actually want the goal strongly enough to passionately stay the course. To go after something just because it seems like a good idea will most likely not sustain you through the inevitable obstacles that appear along the way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Ask yourself, can you clearly see a contrast between your current status and what you want as your goal’s ultimate result? In other words, is the difference between the two big enough and is the desire strong enough to passionately motivate you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have honestly decided to go after your goal, then it is time to establish an absolutely clear vision of your expected result as if it has already been accomplished (as already attained). This is an important element of your belief system and your self-motivation. Your mindset is critical. That is, how you feel about your goal, how you express that to yourself, and how you’re going to achieve it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This mindset part usually works best if you understand how it involves the subconscious mind&lt;/strong&gt;. It is outstanding if you are enthusiastic about achieving your goal. But if you want to give the journey a real boost, then consider how you can nurture your subconscious mind to acceleratethe process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your subconscious mind is infinitely more powerful than your conscious mind and it does not know the difference between a truth and a lie. That means that whatever you tell your subconscious mind repeatedly over time, it will believe. If you tell yourself that can’t do something, it will believe that as fact. Likewise, if you tell yourself you are happy and wealthy, it will believe that as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is important to know just how precious each word you tell yourself is to your mindset, motivation, and success.&lt;/strong&gt; If you are in reality telling yourself that you are incapable of attaining your goal while you are trying to reach it, the conflict may very well sabotage your efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here’s a tip about feeding your subconscious mind with nurturing thoughts:&lt;/strong&gt; Write down the vision for your goals in a series of affirmations. The wording should be written in the first person and should be stated as if it were already true. For example, “I am so happy with the love of my family and the tremendous success I enjoy in my work.” Or, “In just 3 short months I have made 6 additional sales to increase my income by $5,000.” Remember your subconscious mind accepts your input as fact, so select your words carefully. Throughout each day, take time to say your affirmations silently and aloud, or even write them down again and again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kick your mindset into gear to achieve your goal.&lt;/strong&gt; Clearly establish a vision for the goal you want to achieve, prepare a plan of action, and nurture your mindset for success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is an entrepreneur and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. If you’re searching for a truly successful online income source, get the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;FR.E.E MaxPro System Report and Audio&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; at: &lt;a href="http://maxproincomeplan.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://MaxProIncomePlan.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; — Also follow David's marketing tips and insights at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3687277917620810899?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3687277917620810899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3687277917620810899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/07/kick-your-mindset-into-gear-for-goal.html' title='Kick Your Mindset Into Gear for Goal Achievement'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-4697531240598495623</id><published>2009-06-15T16:41:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:44:12.802-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='article title'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='write an article title'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emarketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='article title keywords'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='article marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to write an article title'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet marketing'/><title type='text'>Online Article Marketing Tip - The Title</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Article Marketing:&lt;br /&gt;Use A Descriptive Keyword-Rich Title&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;There are a variety of ways to promote your Internet business and to help generate traffic to your website or capture page. One of the most effective and economical methods is to write an article that offers real value for the reader. This method can generate free traffic, build link popularity, and attract your target audience. However, article marketing only works best when proven key elements are properly implemented.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;One of the most important elements of article marketing is to create an article title that clearly identifies the content&lt;/strong&gt;. It is important to use keywords that quickly catch the attention of readers and the search engines. Think of the title as a headline to a news article, where each word is critical to the description. In other words, in as few words as possible, the reader understands what the article is about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When readers use the Internet to find information, they usually begin by entering descriptive keywords into one of the major search engines or directories. Your goal is to create a title for your article that corresponds to the words that they most likely will enter&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;After all, if your article title does not surface as a result of a reader's search entry, then your article will not be read. You can write prize-winning content (and end it with a signature paragraph to reach you for more information) but that will not mean much if the article never reaches your target audience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When an article title is carefully created it will help to place the article higher up in the search engine results&lt;/strong&gt;. Sometimes the specific words selected will be the natural consequence of the articles purpose. However, it is wise to utilize one of the keyword software tools that are readily available to help in this process. You may be surprised to find out which keyword phrases most people actually enter when searching for their topic. There are many free and fee-based keyword software programs to access. Simply use a search engine to find one that will work best for your purpose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Article marketing is a very effective way to establish yourself as an "expert" on a particular topic. It is considered one of the favorite methods to create interest in a product or service because it can be very economical and viral. You can write an article and submit it to directories at no cost. That is, unless you chose to job-out the writing or submit it to a fee-based article directory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Well written articles are notorious for spreading throughout the Internet, surfacing in search engines, directories, blogs and so on. But, always keep in mind that the best article in the world must have a descriptive, easy-to-understand title that includes keywords that will catch the attention of readers and the search engines&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-4697531240598495623?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4697531240598495623'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4697531240598495623'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/06/online-article-marketing-tip-title.html' title='Online Article Marketing Tip - The Title'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8622182412737122086</id><published>2009-06-01T16:28:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:44:57.515-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='web marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='search engine optimization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='seo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what is seo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emarketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet advertising'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='what is internet marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet marketing'/><title type='text'>2 Basic Terms Of Online Marketers</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099; font-family: arial;"&gt;Quick Definitions of 'Internet Marketing' and 'SEO'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;There are two Internet terms that often need clarification for entrepreneurs who are new to online promotion of a product or service. Those terms are 'Internet Marketing' and 'SEO'. So, here are the 'cliff notes' definitions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What is Internet Marketing?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Internet marketing, also referred to as online marketing, web marketing, Internet advertising, or eMarketing, is the marketing of products or services over the Internet. A broad range of tools and tactics are used in the execution of Internet marketing and can range from email newsletters to paid advertisements on third party websites. Due to its flexibility and global reach, businesses of all sizes can greatly benefit from the proper use and implementation of Internet marketing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What does SEO stand for?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;SEO stands for Search Engine Optimization. SEO is the process of improving the volume and quality of visitors to a website from search engines via “natural” or “organic”, non-paid for results. Typically, the closer to the top of the list that a website appears when a search is conducted, the more targeted visitors will click on the link to that website. SEO occurs both on a website and off the website in order to properly coordinate results in all search engines.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;Visit David at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8622182412737122086?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8622182412737122086'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8622182412737122086'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/06/2-basic-terms-of-online-marketers.html' title='2 Basic Terms Of Online Marketers'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2549313629186282511</id><published>2009-05-06T12:46:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:45:53.921-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='overcome problems'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stop feeling stuck'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental clutter'/><title type='text'>Transform Struggle To Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #006600; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Prepare Yourself Within&lt;br /&gt;For Outward Achievement&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: Verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Discover how to overcome doubt, mental clutter, tolerations, and resistance that undermine, distract, and sabotage your personal growth and actions for success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;It is possible to turn overwhelm, mistakes and setbacks into successful change by using these struggles to your advantage.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, it is important to understand that if you are going to transform from a difficult course to a path of positive patterns, the shift must originate from within you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To positively change and grow you need to realize that success or failure is a reflection of your authentic inner world. What exists within you is what will be reflected outwardly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your priorities and actions must be set by clear thinking and a productive mindset.&lt;/strong&gt; Before you begin structuring your outside world, prepare yourself within. Your values, beliefs, knowledge, the way you think, and the choices you make will determine the results you derive. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Implementing this inner approach for positive change will help to create the foundation and sustaining motivation for successful action.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;As you tap into more clarity of thought, you begin to identify the gap between where you are and where you want to be.&lt;/strong&gt; The steps you need to take to achieve your desired change become apparent and constructive action is more promising.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you learn to transform your struggles to outward successes by working from within, you establish focus and become willing, ready and motivated to make the necessary commitment and changes for advancing personal growth and actions for the outcome you want to achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. For a &lt;strong&gt;FR.E.E Report and Audio CD on Breakthrough Success&lt;/strong&gt;, go to: &lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; -- and see David's marketing tips and insights at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2549313629186282511?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2549313629186282511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2549313629186282511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/05/transform-struggle-to-success.html' title='Transform Struggle To Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1201196304722320137</id><published>2009-04-14T12:03:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T14:52:59.919-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to set and achieve goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieving results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='setting goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieving success'/><title type='text'>Quick Look: Setting and Achieving Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff;"&gt;No Way Around It ...&lt;br /&gt;You Must Set Your Goals&lt;br /&gt;and Work Them to Achieve Results&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;After determining what you want to accomplish, with the end result in mind, establish both short and long term goals for your target. Make sure your clearly written goals are worthwhile, achievable, crystal clear, supportive and measurable. Set specific time frames for each goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you have refined your written goals and created a plan-of-action, find ways to work your plan throughout each day. Consistently remind yourself of your goals and passionately pursue them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1201196304722320137?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1201196304722320137'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1201196304722320137'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/quick-look-setting-and-achieving-goals.html' title='Quick Look: Setting and Achieving Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5862359509749788135</id><published>2009-04-13T13:57:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T17:31:00.089-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perks of being an entrepreneur'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='harrison group'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve personal and financial success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perks of business ownership'/><title type='text'>Perks of Business Ownership</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Millionaires Say Business Ownership&lt;br /&gt;Can Offer Financial Success and Happiness&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;If you are contemplating a shot at entrepreneurship or if you are presently struggling with your own business, you may want to see some facts that could possibly inject some motivation to help you persevere with you dreams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Running your own business. That is how half of all millionaires have made their money, according to a survey by American Express and the Harrison Group. When millionaires were asked a variety of questions about business ownership and the perks they experience, they provided some very interesting insights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/6ga6wo"&gt;Read more ...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5862359509749788135?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5862359509749788135'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5862359509749788135'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/are-you-entrepreneur-take-moment-to.html' title='Perks of Business Ownership'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2220651410861650043</id><published>2009-04-09T17:19:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T17:32:09.014-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualizing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to visualize'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualize'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve goals faster'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='seeing results'/><title type='text'>Accelerate Goals By Visualizing</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Yes, you can actually speed up&lt;br /&gt;the achievement process!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The use of visualization is one of the most effective ways to accelerate the achievement of a goal, but it is probably the most under-utilized success tool available&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, most people simply do not take advantage of this powerful technique to advance their desired results. But that can be reversed quickly if one will seriously consider the benefits to be derived from well-formed goals being vividly pictured in the mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/58v8eb"&gt;Read more now ...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2220651410861650043?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2220651410861650043'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2220651410861650043'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/definitely-one-of-most-under-utilized.html' title='Accelerate Goals By Visualizing'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5258569237058099250</id><published>2009-04-08T14:26:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T17:33:07.229-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accepting responsibility'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='a balanced life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='a fulfilling life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieving success'/><title type='text'>Responsibility in Action = Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;Decisions, Actions and Results&lt;br /&gt;Are Your Responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;To experience a purposeful, balanced, and fulfilled life&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;... it is imperative to accept responsibility for the choices you make. This includes what you think, the beliefs you hold, the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the results you derive from those activities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is only one person responsible for the quality of life you live. That person is you. &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/9sssyz"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Read more now ...&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5258569237058099250?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5258569237058099250'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5258569237058099250'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/responsibility-in-action-success.html' title='Responsibility in Action = Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3837291538209245246</id><published>2009-04-08T10:30:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:17:19.046-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='feeling stuck'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='see new possibilities'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to change perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieving more'/><title type='text'>Feeling Stuck?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;If you seem to be stuck,&lt;br /&gt;unable to gain momentum&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;... to advance toward what you really want to achieve ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may be dragging around OLD negative images and disappointments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Except for learning from those experiences, it is important to let go and allow NEW opportunities a chance to grow and nourish. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/bkj9h8"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David&lt;/strong&gt; Schaefer is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3837291538209245246?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3837291538209245246'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3837291538209245246'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/feeling-stuck-read-this-short-article.html' title='Feeling Stuck?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8785932137753065925</id><published>2009-04-07T16:50:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T17:35:46.997-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='managing time'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to mange time'/><title type='text'>Just How Precious Is Your Time?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#003300;"&gt;It is amazing how we fritter away&lt;br /&gt;PRECIOUS TIME&lt;br /&gt;as if there's an endless amount&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Here's an idea:&lt;/em&gt; just take a second to look back. Now think about how fast has time passed since you graduated from high school, learned to ride a bike, experienced your first love, landed your first real job?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Learn to manage your time and value its importance in your life&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read this recommended article: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/6q2hjk"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;http://tinyurl.com/6q2hjk&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8785932137753065925?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8785932137753065925'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8785932137753065925'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-agree.html' title='Just How Precious Is Your Time?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-4176913130134286249</id><published>2009-04-06T09:17:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:20:54.643-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Social Networking is Cool ...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;Social Networking is Cool ...&lt;br /&gt;But a Little Caution is Wise&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;Social Networking is a cool way to share ideas, exchange information, and to market products or services (when done properly).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, it is wise to institute a little caution when expressing details on any Social site. Remember, whatever you post is then public fodder -- and then you have no control over how your information will be used from then on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, if all goes well, your illuminating post will positively spread to places that will offer value for all your readers (and you).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Also visit: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;https://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-4176913130134286249?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4176913130134286249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4176913130134286249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/this-is-interesting-read-about-social.html' title='Social Networking is Cool ...'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8223230663415331417</id><published>2009-04-03T12:31:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T17:42:48.480-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Yes, Goals!  Go back to basics for success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Goals Establish Purpose and the Mindset for Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;See the HOW TO details here: &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/ct6tvm"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://tinyurl.com/ct6tvm&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8223230663415331417?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8223230663415331417'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8223230663415331417'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/goals-establish-purpose-and-mindset-for.html' title='Yes, Goals!  Go back to basics for success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5795788030657840222</id><published>2009-04-01T12:31:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:23:53.357-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='using keywords'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='generating traffic'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='using an autoresponder'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to use PPC'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to get traffic'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='generate traffic'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pay per click'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='successful marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marketing success'/><title type='text'>Create Traffic for Online Marketing</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;8 Ways to Generate Traffic&lt;br /&gt;for Marketing Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For any Internet business to succeed, generating TRAFFIC is absolutely essential&lt;/strong&gt;. That is, finding and implementing ways to entice potential buyers to read, see or hear your sales message and then to opt-in for additional information or to purchase. Without generating traffic, it is unlikely anyone will see your message (unless they perhaps stumble upon it).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you want to attract customers or clients, you must constantly be instituting competitive methods for creating interest and action from your target market. Your target market is the group you have identified as seriously potential buyers of your product or service&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Above all, you do not want to simply spend your time, energy, and money advertising to just anyone who will possibly listen --- that is extremely ineffective. When generating traffic, the process needs to include research and discipline when finding your possible buyers and reaching them in a way that is most profitable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Consider these 8 traffic generating methods:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Use Pay-Per-Click (PPC) advertising, such as Google's AdWords or similar programs by Yahoo or MSN&lt;/strong&gt;. This method does require a learning curve, so take the time to investigate how this process is successfully implemented. When you do this right, the results can be profitable. But, if you do not do your homework, it can be a very expensive learning process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;A good place to begin is to study the tutorials provided by Google's AdWords website. Then, you will also be able to find loads of additional training available by doing an online search. There is no end to the ebooks, videos and courses on the topic of PPC advertising.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, a here's tip: to get your sea legs, you may want to start this advertising method with one of the PPC programs other than Google. It can be a little less expensive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Learn the science of effective keyword selection&lt;/strong&gt;. Here, again, the novice will find that there is a bit of learning curve. But, when you do get the hang of researching and picking relevant keywords or phrases, you are likely to attract more targeted prospects. And, when the search engines pick up on your high ranking keywords, your message is likely to be viewed by more people. A pay-per-click ad has a better chance of appearing in the initial search results pages. There are a number of very good keyword search tools.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Create an opt-in page where visitors provide their name and email address for further information&lt;/strong&gt;. The opt-in page may be called a squeeze page, a capture page, an opt-in sales page or a variety of other names. But, the bottom line is that the prospect voluntarily provides their contact information and it is added to your auto-responder mailing list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;It is this list of prospects and customers that becomes your cherished source for future sales. Prior to obviously promoting a product or service, begin to develop a relationship with newly listed prospects to establish credibility. It is important for people on your list to view you as someone they can trust.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Create newsletters and special announcements to send out to your auto-responder list of subscribers&lt;/strong&gt;. Establish yourself as an “expert” on your particular topic. Give your prospects or customers a reason to do business with you.&lt;br /&gt;If you are communicating effectively with your list, you will generate additional traffic by giving your readers a reason to forward your message or to share details about your particular product, service, or promotion with others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Write articles and press releases&lt;/strong&gt;. By writing and submitting articles to the article directories, you implement a marketing method for potentially long-term exposure. At the end of the article you ad short informative copy about your product or service with a link to get additional information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Submitting a press release about your product or service can create a sense of urgency and value to what you are marketing. The structure of the press release depends on the topic and where it is submitted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Implement the use of Viral Marketing&lt;/strong&gt;. This is where you take the opportunity to include your website address and a short promotional blurb to sources that are likely to be shared by others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With this marketing method, people can become so intrigued with the message or information you provide they feel compelled to pass it along to others. For example, you can attach a creative or informative message or link to various types of media -- such as an article, some variation of gossip or buzz format, a funny video or entertaining game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Join forums or discussion sites to gain information and to share your knowledge&lt;/strong&gt;. Research forum websites for your particular topic, observe the communication exchanged on these sites, and eventually contribute value to establish your credibility as an “expert.” As with articles, you can ad a brief blurb about your product or service and include a contact link.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. Exchange or trade links with other websites&lt;/strong&gt;. This can be a great way to build business relationships with owners of other website or blog, and this method is free to inexpensive. Do a search for websites that will compliment the product or service that you offer. Chances are the other website owner will consider this a good move as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;By showing each others website links, it brings additional attention to the sites -- and the search engines like to see incoming links. Also, when visitors see your link shown on someone else's site, it may appear to be an implied endorsement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;The above methods for generating traffic only represent a fraction of the tools you can use to achieve marketing success. However, these 8 traffic generating tools have proven to be well worth your time, effort and expense when properly implemented. More information about these and other methods can easily be found by doing an online search.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5795788030657840222?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5795788030657840222'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5795788030657840222'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/04/create-traffic-for-online-marketing.html' title='Create Traffic for Online Marketing'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1629798842308009390</id><published>2009-02-01T14:51:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:26:57.206-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing email copy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to write an email subject line'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='email writing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='promotional email'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='email subject line'/><title type='text'>Carefully Compose The Email Subject Line</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Subject Line Of Promotional Emails&lt;br /&gt;Must Create Curiosity&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The goal of an email subject line is to entice the reader to open the message&lt;/strong&gt;. A smartly written subject line has a good chance of accomplishing that goal if it is eye catching, concise, and creates a strong sense curiosity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;What are some simple guidelines for creating email subject lines?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For anyone who has written promotional email copy, one of the biggest challenges is coming up with a subject line that can get the reader to open the email. Especially when you realize that online prospects are regularly inundated by a multitude of email subject lines.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even the most experienced online marketers are challenged to come up with new and provoking copy for email subject lines. Many of the gurus say use whatever works. Experiment, observe what other marketers are doing, and test different variations of the copy to find out which one produces the best results.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the most common mistakes email writers make is trying to actually sell their promotion within the introductory subject line. The purpose of the subject line is to only stimulate enough interest so that the reader is motivated open the email, to see what is inside.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you fail to create a subject line that catches the reader’s attention, most likely your email will be deleted in a nanosecond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Likewise, if you offer too much information in the subject line, the reader either accepts or rejects that limited content and usually sees no need to open the email.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;Should the subject line be personalized with the receiver's name?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you ask this question of successful online marketers, you will usually get one of three responses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;... absolutely include the name&lt;br /&gt;... it is just not that important anymore&lt;br /&gt;… only if it naturally fits the line of copy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Some marketers feel the consumer is now numb to the overuse of including personalization. Yet, psychologists will tell you everyone loves seeing their name, and it creates a connection with the visitor. The bottom line is that you will have to test this for yourself. When it comes to including the receivers name, much depends on where, when and how the subject line copy is used.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;The more important question is whether including the receivers name in the subject line can help to increase results. Many savvy marketers believe it does add value if it is done appropriately. In other words, do not include personalization simply for the sake of using the name. If you are going to use someone’s first name in the subject line, make sure it flows with the copy and does not come across as forced. Employ a writing style that is conversational and creates curiosity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The email subject line is a curious piece of copy&lt;/strong&gt;. It encompasses very few words and is often purposely vague. The reader’s attention must be captured and enough interest created to have the email opened. So few words, but absolutely critical if the email itself will ever be read.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1629798842308009390?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1629798842308009390'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1629798842308009390'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/02/carefully-compose-email-subject-line.html' title='Carefully Compose The Email Subject Line'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-6297466714356523362</id><published>2009-01-05T15:25:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:28:31.991-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive change'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><title type='text'>Boost Brain Activity With Self-Talk</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;5 Reasons Positive Self-Talk Really Works&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Boost positive BRAIN activity with effective SELF-TALK&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Learn how to properly feed your brain with right thoughts and words, and you will discover a powerful method for positively impacting your life forever!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1.&lt;/strong&gt; The positive and effective use of Self-Talk, silently or aloud, can dramatically impact the subconscious mind for lasting change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.&lt;/strong&gt; You actually activate healthy, productive chemicals and electrical responses in the brain that spontaneously work for you … instead of against you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.&lt;/strong&gt; Positive Self-Talk gives you the essential, action-focused means to make the changes you want and need … even if you have not been able to accomplish that in the past.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4.&lt;/strong&gt; You learn a practical, easy way to live your life by active intent … rather than passive acceptance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5.&lt;/strong&gt; You strengthen your will, beef up your success-oriented self-concept, and gain deep-rooted self-assurance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For practically every habit you want to change, you can create Self-Talk that will advance desired change&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer i&lt;/strong&gt;s a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-6297466714356523362?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6297466714356523362'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6297466714356523362'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/01/boost-brain-activity-with-self-talk.html' title='Boost Brain Activity With Self-Talk'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2608914261797472005</id><published>2009-01-01T17:16:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:30:14.258-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hidden potenital'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='michael gelb'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to change behavior'/><title type='text'>Tapping Into Your Natural Genius</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #009900;"&gt;Hidden Potential&lt;br /&gt;Within the Subconscious Mind&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;Understanding the potential hidden within the subconscious mind can be invaluable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To truly effect worthwhile and long-term change toward achieving what matters most to you, your affirmative thoughts must reach the subconscious mind. It is said that as much as 90 percent of ones behavior and beliefs are the result of what the subconscious mind accepts.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;Author Michael Gelb, a recognized pioneer of creative thinking, accelerated learning, and innovative leadership, writes: Brain researchers estimate that your unconscious (subconscious) data base outweighs the conscious on an order exceeding ten million to one. This data base is the source of your hidden, natural genius. In other words, a part of you is much smarter than you are. The wise people regularly consult that smarter part.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When you tap into the subconscious mind with your new behavior or change of habit, this very special place will work amazingly well for you&lt;/strong&gt;. While this process does require commitment and a consistent pattern of repetition of the right thoughts the benefits are enormous. Think of it as a treasured storehouse of knowledge and wisdom which is constantly supporting you and attracting ways to help achieve your desires, even though you are not always aware of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;It has been shown that if you earnestly practice the exercise of feeding your mind with well-chosen information for at least 20 to 30 consecutive days you will have an excellent chance of impacting the subconscious mind for positive change. This concentrated effort on a given change of thought will reward your discipline and conditioning.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Rather than letting your environment control your life, you will be astonished at how your subconscious mind can energize and support you when you learn to consult it and nurture it with the information that serves you best.&lt;/strong&gt; As a result, you soon discover a significant change in the way you think, feel and act. For some people this is a subtle process and for others it is blaring quantum leap, but either can reveal successful effects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2608914261797472005?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2608914261797472005'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2608914261797472005'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2009/01/tapping-into-your-natural-genius.html' title='Tapping Into Your Natural Genius'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1137696527539983229</id><published>2008-12-01T17:44:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:31:41.239-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='david schaefer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieving a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='melissa van rossum'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><title type='text'>New Goals Require New Change</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099;"&gt;Are You Willing to Grow and Change with New Goals?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;When you think about your goals and objectives, are you nurturing these goals with your emotional reactions of faith, hope, belief and other prosperous emotions? Or are you filled with worry, anxiousness and an ever-present response of ‘Where IS it?' ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Certainly, never ending patience with your goals isn’t the answer to manifesting them. If something takes longer to manifest than you want it to, you’re bound to feel frustrated. But you do need to watch your reactions since you are literally pouring energy into your outcome when you react and emote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next time you feel discouraged that your goals aren’t coming to fruition as quickly as you’d like for them to, consider the possibility that you’re resisting the very wisdom you’re supposed to be learning through this process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When we embark on a new goal we often think we’ll get the luxury of staying the same while getting to enjoy a new accomplishment. It doesn’t always work that way.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As soon as we set new goals the Universe agrees with us that this is what we shall have and enjoy. Then we’re asked to grow and change and release limiting thoughts, beliefs, emotional patterns and behaviors that don’t energetically don’t match our desired goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Sounds like a reasonable exchange, doesn’t it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, the next time you feel like screaming in frustration that you don’t yet have what you want, stop and consider what you might be resisting instead. It might just be the thing you want most.&lt;br /&gt;Strive to be truly aware of what you’re energetically sending out into the world, and your creations; and aim to be at peace and to flow with the things you desire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Author: This article, originally titled "For More Happiness &amp;amp; Prosperity, Watch How You React to Your Goals, Objectives," was written by Melissa Van Rossum. She is the creator of the TruAwareness process, which is revealed in her book "All You've Ever Known." Melissa's teachings show one how to deepen their intuition to live a happier, authentic and more rewarding life. Visit her at: &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.allyouveeverknown.com/blog"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;http://www.AllYouveEverKnown.com/blog&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer i&lt;/strong&gt;s a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1137696527539983229?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1137696527539983229'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1137696527539983229'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/12/new-goals-require-new-change.html' title='New Goals Require New Change'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8804582357345564174</id><published>2008-12-01T17:08:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:32:58.497-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='affiliate marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='infinite income plan'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='instant income plan'/><title type='text'>New Affiliate Marketer Fundamentals</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5 Key Action Steps&lt;br /&gt;for the New Affiliate Marketer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Affiliate marketing is clearly one of the most popular business opportunities available for the individual who wants to market online.&lt;/strong&gt; The ability to tap into the Internet for an unlimited selection of products and services to promote is truly one of the tremendous advantages of our time for entrepreneurs. And, there is a huge market of prospective customers with whom to share your story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In affiliate marketing you promote other people's products and in return receive a share of the sale price.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;The path to becoming a successful affiliate marketer can sometimes be a little tricky. But with the proper information and training the rewards can be lucrative. The purpose of this article is to discuss the initial considerations and approach to becoming an affiliate marketer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here are 5 Key Actions for the New Affiliate Marketer to seriously address:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;strong&gt;Desire to learn and to take action&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Without proper guidance the unfamiliar territory of online marketing can be a bit intimidating and overwhelming. Learning the tricks of the trade will help set you on the right course and give you an invaluable edge over the competition. Proper knowledge of what works in affiliate marketing at any given time is vital for success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &lt;strong&gt;Willingness to invest in the process and work smart&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One has to be willing to invest time and effort, even when the desired outcome seems slow. Sometimes new affiliates can see fairly quick financial results, but usually the process takes a little time and patience. It is wise to choose your mentors and training materials with forethought. While there are outstanding training guides for a high price, there are also informative low-cost materials as well. And, with persistence, you can find successful marketers who are generous with their guidance and often free advice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;strong&gt;Do your homework, set a plan-of-action and take action&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do your homework to find a tested and proven step by step program that will help you learn how to select products and services to promote. Make a commitment to be disciplined in your approach to conducting business. Avoid the temptation to constantly jump from one affiliate program to another. A methodical approach from the outset will stave off many potential mistakes. But, do not merely read and take notes. You must take action and implement what you learn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dig in with dogged determination&lt;/strong&gt;Determination means never giving up. It means staying focused and motivated. One classic behavior of new affiliate marketers is impatience, and that is where many newbies repeatedly stumble and fail. It is important to establish a long-term view of affiliate marketing and to build the process as with any successful business practice. Do it right and stay the course.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;strong&gt;Expect to be successful&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is imperative to begin your affiliate marketing adventure with positive expectancy. In other words, expect to be successful. In spite of the times when things just do not seem to move along fast enough or when an action does not work out as anticipated, keep moving forward. Learn from materials, mentors, and mistakes and strengthen your desire to succeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8804582357345564174?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8804582357345564174'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8804582357345564174'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/12/new-affiliate-marketer-fundamentals.html' title='New Affiliate Marketer Fundamentals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7972868880253829950</id><published>2008-11-17T14:58:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:33:58.008-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thomas edison'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive mindset'/><title type='text'>A Positive Mindset Produces Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: #009900; font-family: verdana; font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Mind Thirsts for Nurturing Input&lt;br /&gt;and Positive Outcomes&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The mind thirsts for your input and follow-through to achieve. &lt;/strong&gt;This part of you that feels, perceives, and reasons is designed to solve problems and to help you reach the goals that you give it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The thoughts you choose to contribute toward your desired outcome gage the results you derive.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Here is a good mental exercise to focus on what you really want:&lt;/strong&gt; Think of your mind as a clean slate, where you have the opportunity to nourish and empower it with only the healthiest thoughts, beliefs, and intentions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Now, realizing that your mind wants to experience positive outcomes and take its instructions from you, what exactly is it that you want to invest so that you can experience the greatest return for your efforts?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Your mind holds a tremendous desire to be positively stimulated and to experience the feeling of success. In the words of Thomas Edison, “If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7972868880253829950?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7972868880253829950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7972868880253829950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/11/mind-thirsts-for-nurturing-input-and.html' title='A Positive Mindset Produces Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-709200680041514874</id><published>2008-11-17T14:01:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:35:39.350-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='twitter.com'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tweet'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social networking with twitter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='twitter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how does twitter work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='internet marketing'/><title type='text'>Benefit From Twitter Social Networking</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SSG_w3gFdiI/AAAAAAAAAEs/dKaUAc9h8M4/s1600-h/twitter_logo_s.gif"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269703885253342754" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SSG_w3gFdiI/AAAAAAAAAEs/dKaUAc9h8M4/s200/twitter_logo_s.gif" style="cursor: hand; float: right; height: 41px; margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 175px;" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;OOnline Marketers Benefit From Twitters Tweets nline &lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;Marketers Benefit From Twitters Tweets&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What is Twitter?&lt;/strong&gt; Well, on the Twitter login page it is introduced as: a service for friends, family, and co-workers to communicate and stay connected through the exchange of quick, frequent answers to one simple question: What are you doing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The concept of Twitter at first glance appears to offer a very unique method of communicating with people for casual banter. However, if you are marketing in any way on the Internet, this can be a powerful platform for providing information and for generating traffic.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When entering a message (known as a Tweet), the user is forced to communicate effectively, because the content is limited to 140 characters. It does not take long to figure out how to concisely get your Tweet across.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If Twitter is new to you, perhaps you have not yet grasped its true potential.&lt;/strong&gt; It definitely has to be one of the best free traffic generators on the Internet. Its simplicity and accessibility has made this tool extremely attractive to over two million users, and that figure seems to be growing exponentially.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Once you register to participate on Twitter.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;, you will begin to follow other Twitterers. But, the real key for you as a marketer is to generate your own followers. Thus, giving you the opportunity to get your message out quickly and easily.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;As with any marketing headline, the goal of the Tweet is to capture the readers attention and lead them to where your moneymaker content is located (sales page, opt-in, article, etc). Within your 140 characters you hopefully entice the reader and provide a short hyperlink.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beyond the linked message area, the perks of this site are multifaceted. The page begins with an automatic welcome that introduces you to the reader and invites them to become a follower. Next, in a personal information area in the upper right corner of the page you can embed a link to a web page and provide a brief bio.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, if you are going to encourage folks to follow you (or to retain followers), your Tweets need to offer value. For the Internet marketer there can sometimes be a fine line between responsibly leading someone to more information or using a platform to blatantly spam an unwanted message.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Take the opportunity to promote your Twitter page whenever possible&lt;/strong&gt;. Place your Twitter link on your website, blog, ezine, article signature box, and so on. For example, this is my link: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-size: 85%;"&gt;, and I encourage you to there and sign up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Twitter.com includes a few more features not mentioned here – just visit the help section. And, everyday creative entrepreneurs are offering new products and services to independently support and expand the use of Twitter. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The most important point is to take advantage of Twitters simplicity, effectiveness, and potential marketing reach.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-709200680041514874?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/709200680041514874'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/709200680041514874'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/11/benefit-from-twitter-social-networking.html' title='Benefit From Twitter Social Networking'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SSG_w3gFdiI/AAAAAAAAAEs/dKaUAc9h8M4/s72-c/twitter_logo_s.gif' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3670484357964664024</id><published>2008-10-11T17:11:00.010-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:37:15.831-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to go after a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='successfully achieve a goal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve personal and financial success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goal setting'/><title type='text'>Take A Closer Look At Your Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #cc0000;"&gt;Is The Goal You’re Chasing Actually Yours?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Is it possible that you are not achieving the personal and financial success you desire because you simply never took the time to really focus on what YOU actually want?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe what you've heard, tried and done is completely wrong for you. Perhaps you have been trying to accomplish someone else’s dream. Maybe another person’s idea of success sounded great to you. So, you decided to jump on board.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you consistently felt that something wasn’t quite working in your favor? How often do you feel stuck? Do you seem to hit that brick wall over and over again? And here’s the kicker: are you truly enjoying whatever it is you’re going after?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Take a close look at what you have been chasing.&lt;/strong&gt; Is it really what you want or what you think you should be doing? If you have been pursuing what equates to another person’s goal, then it is time to stop and shift gears.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The only dreams and goals you can successfully achieve are your own – the ones that originate from you.&lt;/strong&gt; Everyone has their own talents and abilities. Each one of us must apply those attributes in our own way. That is why it is so important to truly look within and decide on what YOU want to accomplish and how YOU are going to pursue YOUR particular goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are going to achieve personal and financial success, the process must begin with you and have your own DNA stamp on it. When you decide on a goal, it needs to excite you. The goal must include your passion to accomplish it. If you enjoy the journey, you have a far greater likelihood of successfully achieving your goal – both personally and financially.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana; font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3670484357964664024?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3670484357964664024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3670484357964664024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/10/take-closer-look-at-your-goals.html' title='Take A Closer Look At Your Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3725331755596594186</id><published>2008-10-10T16:51:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T15:38:50.221-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve a successful mindset'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><title type='text'>Knowing what you want is the first step</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;How To Get Anything You Want in Life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 78%;"&gt;by contributing author and entrepreneur Lisa Diane&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Getting what you want in life is much easier than most people imagine. In fact, getting what you want requires less effort and frustration than not getting what you want.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;So, if that's true, then why are so many people unhappy, frustrated, living in lack and generally miserable in their lives? The answer is simple. Most people don't know what they want. And you guessed it, there's no way to get what you want if you don't know what you want.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;As children we were very good at knowing what we wanted.&lt;/strong&gt; We lived "in the moment" and had very clear desires and expectations to be met. If we got what we wanted we were happy and content. If we didn't get what we wanted we would throw a fit, pout and let everyone know just how unhappy we were. What clarity we had. There was no question of what we wanted and very little that could stand in our way of getting it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So what happened?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;As soon as we were old enough to understand, our parents changed the rules. They went from satisfying our every demand (which was usually in the form of crying and screaming for a bottle, to be held, for attention or for a toy or other object that was out of our reach) to using that awful two-letter word. NO!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;NO! You can't have that. NO! We can't afford that. NO! You don't deserve that. NO! You can't always get what you want. Because I said, NO!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;We started out knowing exactly what we wanted and getting it. Then we spent the next 16 years of our lives having our parents and teachers tell us NO we can't always have what we want. They taught us to be "realistic" and not to expect too much. They said, "That's life - get used to it!"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Don't misunderstand me. I'm not suggesting that children should be given everything they ask for with no thought of others or their own well-being. However, these negative messages of NO! NO! NO! only create a belief in people that they can't have what they want and they shouldn't ask for it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The first step in having what you want is knowing what you want.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;Think about it for a minute. Do you really know what you want?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;Most people I ask don't have a clue. The best they can do is tell me what they don't want. How about you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This is a question that should not be answered lightly.&lt;/strong&gt; You should spend some quiet time off by yourself, really looking deep inside for all those needs, wants and desires that have gone unrecognized for so long.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-size: 85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Once you know what you want, getting what you want is a simple process that anyone can use to create the results you desire in life. You truly can have anything you want -- KNOWING what you want is the first step.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;This short article is an excerpt from "When You Can Walk on Water Why Take the Boat?" by Lisa Diane – where she writes about creating any result in life you desire.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer &lt;/strong&gt;is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. For a &lt;strong&gt;FR.E.E Report and Audio CD on Breakthrough Success&lt;/strong&gt;, go to: &lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; -- and see David's marketing tips and insights at&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: white; font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3725331755596594186?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3725331755596594186'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3725331755596594186'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/10/knowing-what-you-want-is-first-step.html' title='Knowing what you want is the first step'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-376927343673829168</id><published>2008-09-04T08:50:00.018-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:06:03.184-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achieve a successful mindset'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mindset for success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to achieve a mindset for success'/><title type='text'>A Success Mindset Is Required</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;A Mindset for Success&lt;br /&gt;Produces Remarkable Results &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Discover These 9 Contributing Factors&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The ability of the human mind can serve us beyond our wildest imaginations.&lt;/strong&gt; It has an unlimited capacity to learn; and when properly nurtured, it promotes clarity of thought, achievement, and even longevity of life. Taking responsibility for the successful activity of your mind and deliberately stimulating it for productive output can reap tremendous rewards. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;It is easy for us to project our mental activities toward external matters instead of looking within ourselves and intelligently utilizing the natural gifts of the brain. But, introspection is precisely where success begins and effective action gets processed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;When you understand that the mind is where imagination, inspiration, belief, change, and self-discipline must take place, and you begin to infuse powerful insights and techniques to structure the process, the potential results can be remarkable. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Taking control of your mental faculties and nurturing them to their best advantage provides significant inroads toward accomplishing your important goals. For example, you learn how to overcome doubt, mental clutter, tolerations, resistance, and other self-limiting obstacles which can undermine, distract, and sabotage your personal growth and actions for the success you envision. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;To help you find greater clarity toward achieving what matters most to you, carefully consider how you can begin to implement some or all of the following &lt;strong&gt;9 key action steps for a successful mindset&lt;/strong&gt;. Once you realize the potential impact these points can have in your life, you will certainly want to make them a part of your everyday action plan for success. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Understand that happiness and success originate from within you. &lt;/strong&gt;It is the world inside you that creates the conditions of your life. To positively change and grow you must truly realize that success or failure is a reflection of your inner world. Put another way, what you reveal outwardly depends on your inner thoughts and beliefs and how you decide to process and act on those elements. Once this is understood and actively addressed, inward and outward success can nurture one another and contribute to personal happiness and the life you desire.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. The mind holds a tremendous desire to be positively stimulated and to experience the feeling of success. &lt;/strong&gt;This part of you that feels, perceives, and reasons thirsts for your input and follow-through to achieve. In other words, your brain is designed to solve problems and to help you reach the goals that you give it. Think of your mind as a clean slate, where you have the opportunity to nourish and empower it with only the healthiest thoughts, beliefs, and intentions. The thoughts you choose to contribute toward your desired outcome gage the results you derive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Choice of thought and beliefs shape your life. &lt;/strong&gt;What you think about and believe is what you attract to your life. Clearly, thinking positively and actions of integrity beget the opportunity for more positive results. Likewise, negative, limiting or defeating thoughts beget the likelihood of negative results. Have you heard others declare that you should be careful what you wish for (say or think) as you may very well get it? There is truth in those words, and it can work for or against you. The way that you interpret or explain things to yourself is critical in determining who you are as person and the outcomes you experience. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Decisions, actions, and results are your responsibility. &lt;/strong&gt;To experience a purposeful, balanced, and fulfilled life, it is imperative to accept 100 percent responsibility for the choices you make. This includes what you think, the beliefs you hold, the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the results you derive from those activities. There is only one person responsible for the quality of life you live. That person is you. By accepting full responsibility for your decisions, actions, and results, your approach going into any endeavor is optimized for the potential of a more positive outcome. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. The mind concentrates on a single thought at any given time – use it wisely. &lt;/strong&gt;If you accept that the mind holds a single thought at any given time, it would then seem advantageous that each thought should be truly constructive and contribute to your life. Perhaps that would not be realistic 100 percent of the time, but working toward a more effective choice of thought is certainly a better alternative than living with self-limiting or disempowering thoughts.Learn to swiftly replace negative thoughts with positive, productive, or inspiring ones. It takes practice to do this consistently. But, you will find as you develop this insight and habit of capturing worthwhile, energizing thoughts, negative thoughts will be inhibited and eventually lose their power. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Know that your thought patterns are habits, and some habits need to be changed. &lt;/strong&gt;Like most habits, you can change your patterns of thought. This includes what you think about and the best use of your mental energy. Often, we succumb to thinking patterns which do not offer much value. It is easy to become stuck with the same thoughts and beliefs, speaking the same words, and repeatedly doing the same things. Such a pattern can stifle creativity, learning, and opportunities for a more interesting and adventurous life. Learn to identify your patterns of thought and recognize where, or if, change is needed. But, you must be diligent when making changes, as familiar patterns (habits) which are not serving you well are deeply entrenched and new thinking patterns take time to establish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Self-image must be nurtured. &lt;/strong&gt;Each of us has our own native abilities, signature strengths, learning styles, and personality traits. As you move through your daily life, your self-image can support or sabotage your efforts. It can mean the difference between feeling inspired and taking action or being apathetic and remaining stagnate. An immediate way to begin addressing this issue is to take note of the mental pictures you hold of yourself. Are those images in alignment with what you actually desire for your life? If they are, that is outstanding. Continue to nurture and support yourself. If, however, after an honest self-appraisal, you feel a change is required to match the self-image you want, then figure out what change is necessary and make a commitment to accomplish it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. Goals require belief, commitment, and persistence. &lt;/strong&gt;After determining what you want, with the end result in mind, establish both short and long term goals which are worthwhile, achievable, crystal clear, and measurable. Know why these goals are important to you and what inspires you to achieve them. Then courageously commit to your goals with specific time frames. Do not let fear, false starts, adversity, or other people derail your pursuit. Believing in the outcome determines the outcome. Know that you deserve what you want and that you will achieve your goal. Hold fast to your vision and maintain your focus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;9. The subconscious mind is central to your success. &lt;/strong&gt;To truly effect worthwhile and long-term change toward achieving what matters most to you, your affirmative thoughts must reach the subconscious mind. It is said that as much as 90 percent of ones behavior and beliefs are the result of what the subconscious mind accepts. And, it has been shown that if you earnestly practice the exercise of feeding your mind with well-chosen information for at least 20 to 30 consecutive days you will have an excellent chance of impacting the subconscious mind for positive change. Rather than letting your environment control your life, you will be astonished at how your subconscious mind can energize and support you when you learn to consult it and nurture it with the information that serves you best. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Here's a FREE AUDIO CD for personal and financial success:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;. .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-376927343673829168?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/376927343673829168'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/376927343673829168'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/09/success-mindset-is-required.html' title='A Success Mindset Is Required'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-6766162068299822988</id><published>2008-08-13T15:17:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:06:47.722-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='imagination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Recapture Your Dreams</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Have Your Dreams Diminished Over Time?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Have you ever wondered why your once exciting dreams have somehow lost their luster?&lt;/strong&gt; Perhaps you haven't positively attended to your plans, or maybe it goes a little deeper and getting off track has evolved over time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To embrace and achieve the mindset that leads to the success you truly desire, a shift in thinking may be necessary.&lt;/strong&gt; Often, after years of trying to get ahead and following the directives of other people, we lose site of our own aspirations. Getting back to your dreams and nurturing their growth can sometimes be a challenge. But it is a challenge worth taking on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As children we start out with innocence, a sense of invincibility, and the natural ability to imagine exciting possibilities. Then, as we grow and enter society we are increasingly surrounded by people bombarding us with limiting beliefs and diminished images.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Little by little our belief that anything is possible is often whittled away and we seem to accept a diluted version of what we had hoped to achieve.&lt;/strong&gt; Some people are fortunate enough to slip through the deluge of the 'can't - don't - no way' mentality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, most of us, as we grow into adulthood, find a time in our lives when we must choose between being inundated by self-defeating patterns or to take control and consciously decide to reverse the damage. Optimally, the choice is to participate in successful ways to nourish the mind and reach for imaginative and ambitious goals. This is called Success-Minded Thinking and it takes practice to get the mindset where you want it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Consider this exercise:&lt;/strong&gt; Begin by making a list of all the things you believed in before you were told they were impossible. Do this without any editing. For now, just get your imaginative thoughts noted. Keep adding to your list, and new ideas are okay too. Bring your dreams and creative ideas back to the surface You may want to take several weeks to let your thinking percolate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;When you feel that you have captured a healthy list of possibilities, then begin to view them with an open mind. Warning: with all the old tapes of what you should and shouldn't do playing in the back of your mind, you may need to really work on that 'open mind' concept. Keep in mind that this is your life and your future that you are addressing. So, allow yourself to consider how your recaptured dreams and new ideas can possibly be engaged in your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After identifying what you want to act on, begin to establish clear goals and action plans for achieving your desired results. &lt;strong&gt;You must make a conscious choice to participate in successful ways to nourish your mind and act on imaginative and ambitious goals. Engage in Success-Minded Thinking to pursue the dreams you want to fulfill in your life.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-6766162068299822988?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6766162068299822988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/6766162068299822988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/08/recapture-your-dreams.html' title='Recapture Your Dreams'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5681980676278336606</id><published>2008-07-21T16:21:00.018-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:07:57.877-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solutions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='opportunity'/><title type='text'>Financial Success Eluded You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SIUBEG7OyXI/AAAAAAAAAEk/xMfvdcgifSI/s1600-h/Money+-+in+wallet.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#009900;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; FLOAT: right; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5225584112723478898" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SIUBEG7OyXI/AAAAAAAAAEk/xMfvdcgifSI/s200/Money+-+in+wallet.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#009900;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt; "Financial Success and Happiness Are Not Overrated"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you are not making the money you desire ... if you are not living the lifestyle you truly deserve, there is a reason. You have not yet delt with the core issue for your success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;The issue has nothing to do with any of the many different programs, plans, or systems being offered all over the Internet, snail mail or in the media.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bad news is, chances are you have purchased more than your fair share of these programs. And probably haven't made much financial return from that information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The good news is, even though it can often seem elusive, you can discover your path to whatever the good life means to you (and banish the bank account blues) ... once you understand what the one reason is that has been holding you back. Strangely, that one issue does not begin with money --- money is the result.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is frustrating to be standing at the threshold of a whole new life of fulfilled dreams and not be able to quite grasp it. As discouraging as the journey can seem, financial success and happiness are not overrated and they are attainable. That is, if you address the foundation for your pursuit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To understand how to properly begin the process, take a moment to visit a site that offers you a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;powerful and free audio program&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;. This informative resource can get you on the right track.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have been struggling to achieve the success you want ... living under stress, strain and fear with little to no results, take the time to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;secure this information&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#009900;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5681980676278336606?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5681980676278336606'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5681980676278336606'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/07/financial-success-eluded-you.html' title='Financial Success Eluded You?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SIUBEG7OyXI/AAAAAAAAAEk/xMfvdcgifSI/s72-c/Money+-+in+wallet.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7468998255202179772</id><published>2008-06-16T14:48:00.013-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:09:06.533-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='moving forward'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='overcoming fear'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Fear Is An Insidious Virus</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SFbD568JmHI/AAAAAAAAAEc/PPQeF2vYRn4/s1600-h/Depressed.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; FLOAT: left; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5212569018569431154" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SFbD568JmHI/AAAAAAAAAEc/PPQeF2vYRn4/s200/Depressed.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do Not Fumble&lt;br /&gt;with Fear!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;"Fear is an insidious virus. Given a breeding place in our minds it will eat away our spirit and block the forward path of our endeavors."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; - &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;James F. Bell&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An awareness of fear can actually be of benefit, as it cautions us of potential harm. But, to be consumed by fear and to allow it to negatively impact your hopes, dreams and goals is very detrimental.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is imperative that you learn to direct your thoughts and choices where they will do the most good toward your desired outcome. That means not allowing fear to creep in, take over and create a deluge of doubt and ongoing uncertainty.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If allowed to fester, unnecessary fear and worry can suck the life out of you. It can dramatically, and often silently, invade all areas of your life --- robbing you of physical, emotional and social productivity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do you counter the type of fear, worry and insecurity that is not really an immediate threat? You must learn to channel your thinking toward what is most important to you. In other words, take control of your thoughts and actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Remind yourself of the reason for your goal and why it will be of value when it is accomplished. Re-examine the steps you want to take in order to achieve your goal. And then take immediate action and begin moving forward. If you truly immerse yourself in going for your goal, the fear that was plaguing you will begin to evaporate.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bottom line:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; do whatever it takes to see past your fear and take positive action toward the goal that is most important to you. Take control and change your focus from the fear to what you want and can do. If you feel that you need help to move forward, get it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all experience thoughts that can undermine and derail our mood, intentions, and actions. It is how we decide to respond to those thoughts that make the difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Follow David on Twitter: &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7468998255202179772?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7468998255202179772'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7468998255202179772'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/06/do-not-fumble-with-fear-fear-is.html' title='Fear Is An Insidious Virus'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SFbD568JmHI/AAAAAAAAAEc/PPQeF2vYRn4/s72-c/Depressed.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2801895247275284173</id><published>2008-05-04T11:27:00.020-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:10:27.837-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='helping others'/><title type='text'>The Geese Are Natural Team Players</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SB3mNeld_CI/AAAAAAAAAEU/nACgAyBTlmU/s1600-h/Geese-flying-in-formation.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; FLOAT: right; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5196562664278326306" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SB3mNeld_CI/AAAAAAAAAEU/nACgAyBTlmU/s320/Geese-flying-in-formation.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A Lesson In&lt;br /&gt;LEADERSHIP And TEAMWORK&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Have you ever wondered why migrating geese fly in a "V" formation?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As each bird flaps its wings, it creates uplift for the bird following. In the "V" formation, the whole flock adds at least 71% more flying range than if each bird flew alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of trying to fly without the support of the others . . . and quickly gets back into formation. And if the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back within the formation and another goose flies at the point position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like geese, people who share a common direction and a sense of community can get where they are going quicker and easier than those who try to go it alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;People certainly can learn from the geese, and realize that ultimately their success depends on working as a team . . . taking turns doing the hard tasks and sharing leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Geese in the rear of the formation honk to motivate those up front. A note here: it is important that 'honking from behind' be encouraging. Otherwise, it is just . . . well, honking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a goose gets sick or wounded, two other geese drop out of formation and follow it down to help and provide protection. They stay with the unhealthy member of the flock until it is either able to fly again or dies. Then these remaining geese launch out again to either catch up with their group or join another passing flock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The geese offer us some basic lessons in leadership and teamwork. It is definitely an example to keep in mind as we attempt to achieve our goals in the most productive manner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Are you attempting to go it alone? If so, seriously consider reaching out and asking for &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;support&lt;/a&gt; from others. You will discover that your destination can be accomplished with greater ease and speed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/strong&gt; is a success coach and writes on the topics of personal development and Internet marketing. Visit David at &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/davidschaefer"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://twitter.com/davidschaefer&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2801895247275284173?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2801895247275284173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2801895247275284173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/05/geese-are-natural-team-players.html' title='The Geese Are Natural Team Players'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/SB3mNeld_CI/AAAAAAAAAEU/nACgAyBTlmU/s72-c/Geese-flying-in-formation.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5527467715221060581</id><published>2008-04-02T14:57:00.010-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:11:14.279-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self-talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quality of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Is Your Mind Arranged for Happiness?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R_PmdJxd-lI/AAAAAAAAAEM/8Mh0A_WILM8/s1600-h/rippling_water.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; FLOAT: right; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5184740984547572306" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R_PmdJxd-lI/AAAAAAAAAEM/8Mh0A_WILM8/s200/rippling_water.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Happiness Is Something&lt;br /&gt;You Decide On Ahead of Time"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;So often people allow others to determine their outlook, or circumstances to dictate their perception of life. We make choices throughout each day of our lives and those choices can be our own or we can turn that power over to other elements, including the weather.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you stop to think about the decisions you make and how they impact your happiness, wouldn't it be best to own those choices and act upon your life with actions that bring you happiness&lt;/strong&gt; -- rather than chaos, indecision, or negative thinking?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When you throw a pebble in a pond you see a ripple effect moving outward&lt;/strong&gt;. That is precisely what occurs in your life whether you decide to be happy or unhappy. It is a choice, and it should be a conscious choice. &lt;strong&gt;When the ripple effect is filled with a postive outlook and good intentions, the impact can be enormously empowering for you as well as those around you&lt;/strong&gt;. The alternative usually limits possibilities and puts a real damper on ones outlook of life. Which choice would you prefer?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Is your mind arranged for happiness?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visit &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/success.html"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; and experience the words and wisdom of &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/greatminds.htm"&gt;Great Minds&lt;/a&gt;. You will find hundreds of outstanding quotations by people from all walks of life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5527467715221060581?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5527467715221060581'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5527467715221060581'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/04/is-your-mind-arranged-for-happiness.html' title='Is Your Mind Arranged for Happiness?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R_PmdJxd-lI/AAAAAAAAAEM/8Mh0A_WILM8/s72-c/rippling_water.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7341530133081752870</id><published>2008-03-25T16:26:00.013-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:13:09.871-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><title type='text'>Planning Is The Route To Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R-luiJxd-jI/AAAAAAAAAD8/gDFII0Vxiao/s1600-h/dreams.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; FLOAT: right; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5181794379284478514" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R-luiJxd-jI/AAAAAAAAAD8/gDFII0Vxiao/s200/dreams.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;From Dream to Fruition,&lt;br /&gt;Planning is Essential&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dreaming and visualizing a desired outcome is the beginning of all great ventures, and creating a sequential plan to fulfill the goal is critical. Then implementing the plan builds a foundation to support and realize the fulfillment of that dream.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Although the dream may be tweaked here and there along the way, it is clearly better than attempting to achieve a goal by trial and error. When potentially wasted steps are eliminated, then momentum develops and the distance toward achieving the goal is greatly shortened.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;"Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color:#666666;"&gt;-&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt; Stephen A. Brennan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Once a specific goal has been set, it is imperative to develop a detailed written plan for its achievement.&lt;/strong&gt; When preparing a plan, always clearly keep the successful end result in mind. Soon it will become apparent that each step toward the goal builds upon the previous step. Any fear and uncertainty begins to shrink and confidence in the foundation becomes more solid and achievable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;It is important to note that the specific written plan should include absolutely every objective, detail, and resource available to accomplish the goal --- it will serve as a comprehensive road map to the desired destination. It is essential to establish a &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/laserin.html"&gt;well-constructed plan&lt;/a&gt; for the dream to productively reach fruition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A SPECIAL MESSAGE FOR OUR ENTREPRENEURIAL MEMBERS WHO HAVE STRUGGLED WITH BREAKING THROUGH THE BARRIER TO FINANCIAL SUCCESS:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;If you are not making the money you desire or experiencing the lifestyle you want, there is a specific reason that this is happening. I highly recommend that you secure a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;FREE downloadable CD&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; that will give you the focus needed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;A&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7341530133081752870?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7341530133081752870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7341530133081752870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/03/planning-is-route-to-success.html' title='Planning Is The Route To Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R-luiJxd-jI/AAAAAAAAAD8/gDFII0Vxiao/s72-c/dreams.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2220838220872306819</id><published>2008-02-14T11:49:00.011-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T18:13:43.348-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Stuck?   Maybe It's Time To Reboot!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R7RxYZ4WD1I/AAAAAAAAAD0/wgU5Mp4g6oY/s1600-h/We+all+have+one+of+those+days.jpg"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; FLOAT: right; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5166879336578813778" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R7RxYZ4WD1I/AAAAAAAAAD0/wgU5Mp4g6oY/s320/We+all+have+one+of+those+days.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; "Everyone Needs a Break Now And Then"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;We all experience times when the task, the moment, or the day just isn't working for us.&lt;/strong&gt; Perhaps you didn't get enough sleep, or you haven't been eating right, maybe you've been laboring with some troublesome issue, or the body simply is not cooperating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;With caffeine, nicotine, or other mind-body boosting agents aside, maybe you simply need to push away from whatever it is that's plaguing you and take a break. &lt;strong&gt;It is amazing what a change of scenery or a complete change in thinking can do to nourish and revitalize your mindset.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think for a moment how you can be almost instantaneously transformed when you hear something that strikes you as really funny or you're pulled out of your own thoughts to someone else's experience. &lt;strong&gt;A change of thought or place can literally alter that feeling of being stuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;For the person who simply doesn't feel productive or of value if not constantly focusing on a worthwhile task, "pushing away" for awhile can be a real challenge. In fact, the feeling of guilt and wasting precious time undermines the very idea of "taking a break." But, do it anyway!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;If at first you feel uncomfortable stepping outside your present need to forge ahead (even though you're probably not at the top of your game), do it anyway! This is why we repeatedly hear about people coming back from even a short vacation feeling refreshed and ready to attack their goals with a new outlook.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Once you get into the habit of finding out what works for you to "reboot" your mindset, the action will get easier and more effective.&lt;/strong&gt; Maybe it's a walk around the block, a 30-minute video or DVD that always makes you feel good, or calling someone special. It just takes a little imagination. But, you will discover that when you return to that brick wall you were fighting against, things will definitely look different.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;We all need to "reboot" sometimes! &lt;/strong&gt;It is amazing what a change of scenery or a complete change in thinking can do to nourish and revitalize the mindset. &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;Learn how&lt;/a&gt; to do this effectively and you will be at the top of your game more often than you can imagine.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2220838220872306819?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2220838220872306819'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2220838220872306819'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/02/stuck-maybe-its-time-to-reboot.html' title='Stuck?   Maybe It&apos;s Time To Reboot!'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R7RxYZ4WD1I/AAAAAAAAAD0/wgU5Mp4g6oY/s72-c/We+all+have+one+of+those+days.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1424600984755008233</id><published>2008-01-22T11:16:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:43:04.042-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>People Always Pass Failure On The Way to Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"All Successful People Do This"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;There is a perspective that one needs to keep in mind when things don't go as planned. That is, &lt;strong&gt;people always pass failure on the way to success&lt;/strong&gt;. The key element of failing is to learn from the experience, reevaluate, and move forward --- all successful people do this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;"Success is the ability to go from one failure to another&lt;br /&gt;with no loss of enthusiasm."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;- Winston Churchill&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Failure is a significant part of the learning process.&lt;/strong&gt; It is important to accept that we learn by trial and error. Think of the process like this: get started &gt; make mistakes &gt; listen to the feedback &gt; tweak what needs to corrected &gt; and keep moving forward toward the goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When you "fail" to achieve what you had in mind, you are of no less value. You have actually increased your value by the knowledge you have gained --- if you are willing to make mistakes and learn from the experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps you have discovered a route to avoid, or a new path has surfaced, or new sources of help have appeared. When people succeed in acquiring their goals, it is because they persist toward the desired end result in spite of the obstacles that pop up (and it is very rare when unexpected challenges don't occur).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fear of failing does not have to be a part of your mindset.&lt;/strong&gt; That is, if you change your perspective and know that the path toward your goal will most likely have challenges --- all worthwhile goals require tenacity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Remember, all successful people learn from experience and move forward!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;When you have given your all to a task and it does not go as planned, you are in reality one step closer to achieving that goal --- if you persevere. To learn more about properly setting goals and the mindset to support their achievement, visit &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;Coaching Confidential &lt;/a&gt;for more information and help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1424600984755008233?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1424600984755008233'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1424600984755008233'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2008/01/all-successful-people-do-this.html' title='People Always Pass Failure On The Way to Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5096765530822981383</id><published>2007-12-19T11:17:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:47.302-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><title type='text'>Establish a Plan to Reach Your Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R2lEdFGKreI/AAAAAAAAADg/4qa3_iHxnBg/s1600-h/05target_162x178.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5145719315622440418" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R2lEdFGKreI/AAAAAAAAADg/4qa3_iHxnBg/s200/05target_162x178.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"&gt;"One Step Forward, Two Steps Back"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;. . . that is exactly what happens when you don't establish a plan to reach your goals!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;In other words, without clear milestones toward the direction of your goals, floundering, backtracking, and running in circles usually becomes the norm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Rather than waste precious time, &lt;strong&gt;create a short action plan for each of your goals&lt;/strong&gt;. Think of each plan as a map to reach your destination. With this map you will clearly see the path you want to take --- a constant reference to keep you on track. Without such a plan of action, a goal will often seem out of reach or elusive and hitting your target is unlikely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;If you need a place to begin the process, &lt;strong&gt;start by writing down your top 5 goals in specific and motivating language&lt;/strong&gt;. For each goal write down how you plan to achieve your desired outcome --- include a time frame and milestones along the way to measure your progress. As you implement your plan expect to make modifications to shore up or improve the route. Allow yourself to be somewhat flexible when you discover a better way to attain your goal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;When you become proficient at goal setting, the process will become second nature. But, &lt;strong&gt;always make sure you have an action plan for each goal and a clear target in mind&lt;/strong&gt;. In the process, you will also see how you can interconnect your goals, whereby they support one another for successful achievement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;To learn firsthand how to implement your specific desires and goals, visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; and request to work one-on-one with a coach. This is a great way to clearly learn the foundation of goal setting. Once properly learned, this skill will help accelerate the successful achievement of goals the rest of your life!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5096765530822981383?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5096765530822981383'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5096765530822981383'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/12/one-step-forward-two-steps-back.html' title='Establish a Plan to Reach Your Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R2lEdFGKreI/AAAAAAAAADg/4qa3_iHxnBg/s72-c/05target_162x178.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3333594977557830000</id><published>2007-11-23T17:19:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:44:02.413-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>You Must Nurture Success-Minded Thinking</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"You Become What You Think About&lt;br /&gt;Most Of The Time."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;In order to accomplish a successful result, you must begin with a mindset that sufficiently prepares you to implement the actions necessary for a positive outcome.&lt;/strong&gt; In other words, simply jumping into an action without first properly preparing your thoughts for the process is like showing up for a job interview without an appointment or any worthwhile forethought. If that's not self-sabotage, what is?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To achieve actions that consistently support the outcomes you desire, take the time to invest in "success-minded thinking." That involves a vision of your desired end result, a plan for the actions that truly favor your success, and believing that the outcome you want is what will occur.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;There is a workable philosophy at the core of success-minded thinking. That is, you become what you think about most of the time.&lt;/strong&gt; If you constantly think about the possibility of failure, that's most likely going to be your outcome. However, if you consciously make the effort to think in positive terms, where you visualize your successful accomplishment --- and when negative thoughts arise, immediately replace them with constructive thoughts --- then you are definitely on the right track.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Should you decide to take this advice to heart, then realize that you will experience increased success every single time you consciously focus on your more favorable thinking patterns and implement planned actions for your desired outcome. Like any worthwhile endeavor, practice will make the process easier and increasingly more achievable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Success-minded thinking can initially be challenging for many people. Particularly when you consider that expecting the possibility of failure has been the norm for years. But, once you truly understand that "you become what you think about most of the time," your perspective takes on an entirely new and fresh outlook toward &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;achieving success&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3333594977557830000?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3333594977557830000'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3333594977557830000'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/11/you-become-what-you-think-about-most-of.html' title='You Must Nurture Success-Minded Thinking'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3967107982402383388</id><published>2007-10-28T10:10:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:44:28.182-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transformation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Grow and Nourish from New Opportunities</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;Release the OLD, Allow the NEW&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;"Learn to Let Go and Gain a New Perspective"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If you seem to be stuck, unable to gain momentum -- to advance toward what you really want to achieve -- you may be dragging around OLD negative images and disappointments. Except for learning from those experiences, it is important to let go and allow NEW opportunities a chance to grow and nourish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Past negative images that are festered and constantly revisited can markedly stall attempts to begin fresh and and move forward. Both negative and positive self-images are very powerful, and attempting to live with both simultaneously is a clash of brain power that simply doesn't work -- essentially, one cancels out the other.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Unless you decide to take control, negative images have a way of continually bombarding your thoughts toward a downward spiral. Such thoughts just seem to feed on themselves, resulting in behavior that only supports being stuck in your tracks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;A conscious choice to release negative thoughts and images must be made in order to allow for new and positive experiences to occur. This gives you the power to let go of limiting beliefs and to change your entire perspective. It usually requires you to step outside your comfort zone -- but that is where most success really takes hold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Visit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; to learn more about letting go of old negative images and allowing for new choices to move forward for personal success. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3967107982402383388?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3967107982402383388'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3967107982402383388'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/10/release-old-allow-new-learn-to-let-go.html' title='Grow and Nourish from New Opportunities'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3009152811883994682</id><published>2007-09-28T09:29:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:47.422-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self-talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Motivation = Preparation and Focus</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rv0QrXtWt7I/AAAAAAAAADY/FUi48KuL9mw/s1600-h/Old+tapes+out,+New+tapes+in.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#666666;"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5115263089047418802" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rv0QrXtWt7I/AAAAAAAAADY/FUi48KuL9mw/s320/Old+tapes+out,+New+tapes+in.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#666666;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#cc0000;"&gt;"Get Motivated, Stay Motivated"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Create The Right Mindset&lt;br /&gt;and Keep Destructive Thinking At Bay&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;How to Get Motivated and Stay Motivated is a challenge everyone struggles with at one time or another. &lt;strong&gt;The difference between consistently successful people and those who frequently feel stuck is understanding that productive action and results depend on preparation and focus -- and 99% of that preparation is in the mindset. &lt;/strong&gt;In other words, to experience positive action, one must first experience positive thoughts (preferably to the point of actually visualizing a successful outcome -- as if it is already attained).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Self-Motivation naturally exists when there is a contrast between what is presently happening in one's life and what one definitely wants to happen, and they are determined to experience the desired result. However, without proper preparation to doggedly move forward, ruinous negative self-talk creeps in and stalling out tends to occur.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The problem is that most people don't prepare a crystal clear vision of what they want to accomplish or how they are going to achieve it. To truly go after a meaningful goal and be motivated, one must set a plan into place that includes practical sequential steps as well as a mindset that supports a positive result.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Let's shift fast-forward to the mindset: &lt;strong&gt;To help reduce or eliminate nagging struggle in establishing motivation and keeping self-motivated, it is important to understand that the subconscious mind is infinitely more powerful than the conscious mind. The subconscious mind does not know the difference between a truth and a lie.&lt;/strong&gt; ==&gt; Digest that thought for a moment, because it is at the heart of achieving the necessary mindset to Get Motivated and Stay Motivated. The repetitive information fed to this powerful part of the mind is what it is going to believe!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If one constantly degrades their actions or self-worth, that is exactly what the subconscious mind will believe -- and it will strongly reinforce that belief. Knowing the impact this part of the mind plays, the better choice is to carefully deliver constructive, postive thoughts. When negative or destructive thinking surfaces, stop it dead in its tracks and immediately replace it with supportive, positive self-talk. Feed the subconscious mind exactly the thoughts and vision desired -- preferably, as if it is presently happening. "I am a successful entrepreneur" is better than "I want to be ..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Motivation&lt;/span&gt; and sustained self-motivation is based in the understanding of just how influential the proper mindset is to successful outcomes. And, there is often an unexpected bonus. With the right mindset and commitment, people and other valuable resources will naturally gravitate to support one's efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;----&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;How to &lt;strong&gt;Get Motivated and Stay Motivated&lt;/strong&gt; is a fascinating and powerful topic that, when understood and properly applied, can positively change the course of one's life. Learn more about this subject by visiting &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; and taking advantage of a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;complimentary initial consultation.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3009152811883994682?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3009152811883994682'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3009152811883994682'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/09/self-improvement-personal-development.html' title='Motivation = Preparation and Focus'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rv0QrXtWt7I/AAAAAAAAADY/FUi48KuL9mw/s72-c/Old+tapes+out,+New+tapes+in.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-703593426635051422</id><published>2007-09-11T12:48:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:47.576-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='establish purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><title type='text'>Are Your Intentions and Actions Aligned?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RubVwo6tveI/AAAAAAAAAC8/wj9vH6RP1BU/s1600-h/Woman+overwhelmed.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5109005858892529122" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RubVwo6tveI/AAAAAAAAAC8/wj9vH6RP1BU/s320/Woman+overwhelmed.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Overcome Self-Sabotage&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Are You Sabotaging Your Intended Efforts For Success?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Successful living, whether personally, in work or in love, ultimately stems from our inner perceptions and the congruence of our actions&lt;/strong&gt;. If what we want and how we go about accomplishing our goals is INcongruent, then we are likely to experience self-sabotage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;In order for success to be achieved, ones intentions and actions must be in alignment&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Take a moment to see if your desired results are actually being processed effectively, or if you are tripping yourself up along the way. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Ask yourself: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do I truly WANT what I think I want?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do I earnestly BELIEVE that I can achieve my goal?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do I deeply feel that I DESERVE to have what I want?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If you experience nagging doubt about the answer to one or more of the above questions when you've decided to pursue a goal, then you may be a candidate for self-sabotage. &lt;strong&gt;So, the question is: how do you overcome the doubts that may cause your intentions to stall out?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Explore your real intentions&lt;/strong&gt;. Why are you acting on this particular goal? Is it actually your goal or someone else's? Is the goal 100% what you want? Taking the time to consider this fundamental step is very important and can mean the difference between success and disappointment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Explore your level of belief&lt;/strong&gt;. In addition to wanting the goal, do you truly believe the goal is achievable? Do you believe down deep this is important enough to you to go after it? Have you thought about the tools and resources you will need for positive action? Can you commit yourself to what is necessary to accomplish the results you want?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Explore your feelings about deserving the outcome&lt;/strong&gt;. While this may seem strange, if you do not completely feel that you are worthy of a successful outcome, all the time and energy invested simply will not bring the goal to fruition. This type of self-sabotage will definitely result in perplexing disappointment. If you definitely want the goal and believe in it, but have any doubt whether you are worthy of it's success --- figure out why you feel this way. Most likely, when honestly addressed, you can resolve this issue and move forward&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is absolutely wonderful when your intentions and actions are in alignment, and you know that you want a goal, believe in it, and deserve it. But, unless you consciously deal with these basic elements, then it is possible to sabotage your well-intended efforts.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; for a wealth of resources and assistance when approaching and achieving your goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-703593426635051422?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/703593426635051422'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/703593426635051422'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/09/overcome-self-sabotage-are-you.html' title='Are Your Intentions and Actions Aligned?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RubVwo6tveI/AAAAAAAAAC8/wj9vH6RP1BU/s72-c/Woman+overwhelmed.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-742466950504933359</id><published>2007-08-25T15:34:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:47.739-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self-talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='subconscious'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Well-Constructed Affirmations Accelerate Success</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RtCS4x7rNJI/AAAAAAAAAC0/Yp8HQdfh7MY/s1600-h/Have+you+heard+this.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5102739881984734354" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RtCS4x7rNJI/AAAAAAAAAC0/Yp8HQdfh7MY/s320/Have+you+heard+this.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Repeated Affirmations Support Action&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;... imagine a personal advocate whispering positive support ---&lt;br /&gt;even when you're not aware of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Once you become clear about a goal you want to accomplish and consistently keep focused on it, how to achieve it will keep surfacing. One effective method to implement and support the process is through the use of &lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;affirmations&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;An affirmation is a statement that describes a goal in its already completed state&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. The purpose of the affirmation is to repeatedly tap into the subconscious mind for eventual positive and sustained change to achieve one's goal. Examples of an affirmation are: "I am confident and proud after receiving my promotion in only 5 months or better," or "I am celebrating the completion my 4-year degree in only 3 years," or "I am feeling the sun and wind on my face while riding my new silver Harley," or "I am enthusiastically and effectively communicating with an audience of 100 people or more." &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Some key components of a well-stated affirmation include:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Make affirmations only for yourself&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- this is only about you and your completed desire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Begin with "I am"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- the subconscious mind interprets these words as a directive to make the statement happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;State the affirmation postively and in the present tense&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- omit any negative reference such as "no" or "don't," and describe as already achieved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Be specific and brief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- nonspecific words produce vague results, and edit so each word is important and easy to remember.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Incorporate an "ing" action word(s)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- it emphasizes active power and a vision of accomplishment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Include a word(s) expressing emotion or feeling&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; --- emotionally, how would you be feeling when the goal was achieved?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Add "something better," ". . . better" or "more"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; --- often including such words will expand the potential for greater possibilities (beyond your original consideration)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;When you visualize the completion of a goal and repeatedly affirm the end result (silently, aloud and written), your subconscious mind will soon automatically do this for you (like someone supportively whispering in your ear). &lt;strong&gt;The results of the well-constructed affirmation process can be absolutely amazing.&lt;/strong&gt; It is a fairly simple and effective way to help achieve one's goals. Yet, very few people consistently implement the use of affirmations, so those who do really have a competitive edge!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Contact &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/meetdrshaefer.htm"&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/a&gt; of &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; to learn more details and methods for making &lt;strong&gt;affirmations&lt;/strong&gt; work for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-742466950504933359?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/742466950504933359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/742466950504933359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/08/repeated-affirmations-support-action.html' title='Well-Constructed Affirmations Accelerate Success'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RtCS4x7rNJI/AAAAAAAAAC0/Yp8HQdfh7MY/s72-c/Have+you+heard+this.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1521432203400527773</id><published>2007-08-16T17:56:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:47.928-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time saver'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='establish purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><title type='text'>How Much Time Are You Willing to Waste?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RsTWXB7rNII/AAAAAAAAACs/058aq_g4WWY/s1600-h/Time+Mgmt.+4.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5099436369234310274" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RsTWXB7rNII/AAAAAAAAACs/058aq_g4WWY/s320/Time+Mgmt.+4.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Are You a Time Fritterer?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do you manage your time&lt;br /&gt;or waste it little by little?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you find yourself thinking you don't have enough time to finish what must be done, much less time to relax, perhaps you are over due for a time evaluation&lt;/strong&gt;. I know, if you don't have enough time now, you certainly don't have time to do an evaluation of your time. It's ironic, but that is precisely when you need to take stock of your time management.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Most of us have very little concept of just how much time we fritter away&lt;/strong&gt;. For instance, take a quick survey of how much time during the average week that you watch TV, surf the internet, or any other time-consuming activity that doesn't directly help you accomplish your most desired goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Let's take an example like the time used to watch favorite television shows or DVDs. Say you watch 3 one-hour shows each evening Monday through Friday, and over the weekend you view 3 to 6 hours of sports, a DVD, or some other entertaining show. That right there would consume 18 to 21 hours each week --- and that is a significant amount of time. And then you could consider other activities that don't directly contribute to successfully achieving the things you really would like to accomplish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you are really serious about evaluating your time to see where it all goes, consider this exercise&lt;/strong&gt;. Track your time each day for a week in 30 or 60-minute increments. To do this right, you will have to commit to documenting your activities. Carry a small notepad, or use your latest handheld computer device, and honestly note what you do. The honest part can sometimes be the tricky element, as you will certainly surprise yourself along the way. You may find it hard to admit just how much time is lost. It is just human nature to bounce from one activity to another without a lot of thought. Of course, we all have unexpected, but important things come up that require attention --- mark those down as necessary tasks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you adhere to this time evaluation excercise for just one typical week, you will then know how you are realistically spending your waking hours. You will have a new perspective about time priorities. With this knowledge in hand, you can now plan how you want to more productively use your future time --- for greater efficiency, more successful results of your goals, and even how you want to respond to the unexpected&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC , Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If time managment is a task you want to master for achieving more personal and career success, visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt;. Time is a very precious commodity, spend it wisely and you will profit well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1521432203400527773?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1521432203400527773'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1521432203400527773'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/08/are-you-time-fritterer-do-you-manage.html' title='How Much Time Are You Willing to Waste?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RsTWXB7rNII/AAAAAAAAACs/058aq_g4WWY/s72-c/Time+Mgmt.+4.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3768569743057959098</id><published>2007-07-27T16:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:48.091-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accepting responsibility'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='procrastination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Do You Have Obvious Signs of Procastination?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rqpd4CPsN7I/AAAAAAAAACk/p6E4nBWHPKI/s1600-h/Is+it+safe+to+come+out.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5091985545952507826" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rqpd4CPsN7I/AAAAAAAAACk/p6E4nBWHPKI/s320/Is+it+safe+to+come+out.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You May Be A Procrastinator&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Putting off tasks, avoiding the inevitable, or chronic laziness may be obvious signs of procrastination&lt;/strong&gt;. But, while this behavior may seem to be a simple concept, it can actually be the result of some complex issues.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When not properly addressed, procrastination has the potential to negatively impact many areas of one's life&lt;/strong&gt;. This behavior can play havoc with emotions, attitudes, health, and a general outlook of daily living --- not to mention the psychological concerns that can operate below the radar.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Experiencing periodic procrastination is to be expected in life and those temporary lapses usually are soon recognized and addressed. However, when life seems like it is almost coming to a halt and goals are not nearly being accomplished, then it is time to take serious stock of the situation and figure out how to get the wheels moving again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You may be a procrastinator if you experience 2 or more of the following behaviors:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Put necessary work aside to do more enjoyable things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Frequently evade decisions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Feel overwhelmed, not knowing where to begin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Duck new experiences because change is difficult.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Carefully map out projects but rarely see them through.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Fault others when things don't go as planned.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Feel ill when you're confronted with an undesirable task.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Remain in a job when you are unhappy for fear of making a move.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Avoid confrontation at any cost.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If procrastination is negatively altering your life, it may be time to discuss solutions to your situation. Often, short term &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/imaginecoachingpartner.html"&gt;personal coaching&lt;/a&gt; can dramatically help to turn things around. Visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; for insight on this topic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Is procrastination interfering with your life, work, or both?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3768569743057959098?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3768569743057959098'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3768569743057959098'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/07/you-may-be-procrastinator-putting-off.html' title='Do You Have Obvious Signs of Procastination?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rqpd4CPsN7I/AAAAAAAAACk/p6E4nBWHPKI/s72-c/Is+it+safe+to+come+out.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-9044340601262882546</id><published>2007-06-26T10:02:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:48.349-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self-talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise the brain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reticular activating system'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achievement'/><title type='text'>Visualization: Think Search, Find, and Support</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RoEr9ROHl9I/AAAAAAAAACc/mGMZy0Itvok/s1600-h/Visualize.gif"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5080390186245265362" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RoEr9ROHl9I/AAAAAAAAACc/mGMZy0Itvok/s320/Visualize.gif" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;VISUALIZATION:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Accelerate the brain to achieve more for YOU&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When one learns to employ the proven process of visualization, desired goals can be within reach much sooner than one might first expect. It activates the subconscious mind to find solutions and boosts new levels of motivation.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;When creating compelling and vivid pictures in the mind, the subconscious will search and capture the information needed to bring the image increasingly closer to reality. This process stimulates the brain to become aware of anything that will help accompllish the goal that is pictured (see reticular activating system -RAS- Blog post February, 2006). Think search, find, and support. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The effective implementation of visualization is probably the most UNDER-utilized success tool that we possess&lt;/strong&gt;. Unfortunately, most people simply do not take advantage of this powerful technique to achieve their goals. But that can be reversed quickly if one will seriously consider the benefits to be derived from well-formed goals being vividly pictured in the mind. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;In a Harvard study, researchers discovered that students who visualized in advance performed tasks with nearly 100% accuracy, compared to those who did not visualize and achieved only 55% accuracy. It is pretty common knowledge that best performing athletes use the art of visualization to mentally practice their success before competing --- with outstanding results. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The individual who learns to properly set goals&lt;/strong&gt; (click on Goals below)&lt;strong&gt; and then proceeds to also use the process of consistantly visualizing their successful completion will always have the competitive edge and be ahead of the pack. &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; Learn to write down well-constructed goals, review and affirm them, and visualize them every day.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;For help in setting, implementing, and visualizing goals for successful achievement, study the Previous Posts and Archives of this Blog or visit the &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; website. Better yet, begin the productive process of one-on-one &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/imaginecoachingpartner.html"&gt;personal coaching&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-9044340601262882546?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/9044340601262882546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/9044340601262882546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/06/visualization-it-accelerates-brain-to.html' title='Visualization: Think Search, Find, and Support'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RoEr9ROHl9I/AAAAAAAAACc/mGMZy0Itvok/s72-c/Visualize.gif' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-7062758682455410090</id><published>2007-06-14T10:46:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:48.506-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='persistence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insight'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Discover What Not To Do To Achieve Your Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RnFjOROHl8I/AAAAAAAAACU/M1ntwxtQhNc/s1600-h/Thomas+Alva+Edison.bmp"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5075947351815198658" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RnFjOROHl8I/AAAAAAAAACU/M1ntwxtQhNc/s200/Thomas+Alva+Edison.bmp" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;What a wonderful opportunity this gives me to start fresh&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Thomas A. Edison&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Attitude is the key to getting through tough times and achieving eventual success&lt;/strong&gt;. Certainly, no one knew this better than Thomas Edison in his pursuit to find the substance that would function effectively as a filament for his electric light. He tried nearly 10,000 times before he discovered the answer. And, to his credit, his outlook was that he was fortunate enough to find 10,000 ways that didn't work --- bringing him that much closer to a successful outcome. He definitely had the right attitude when it came to turning moments of "failure" into times of learning and advancing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Unfortunately though, after Mr. Edison's discovery of the answer to his research, his Menlo Park laboratory went up in flames --- destroying all his records and work in progress. This man of vision and dedication to his dreams refused to see the setback as tragedy or failure. His response was, "&lt;strong&gt;What a wonderful opportunity this gives me to start fresh&lt;/strong&gt;."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The lesson learned from this famous inventor was that no matter what the challenge or adversity, no matter whether we have little or no control over the circumstances thrust upon us, how we RESPOND to such experiences determines if our success is achievable&lt;/strong&gt;. Obstacles are simply a part of the journey toward attaining a worthwhile goal, and how we overcome these challenges reveals our true determination and character.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;To learn more about applying successful techniques for achieving your goals, visit the &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Confidenital&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; website for helpful resources and &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/imaginecoachingpartner.html"&gt;confidential coaching&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-7062758682455410090?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7062758682455410090'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/7062758682455410090'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/06/what-wonderful-opportunity-this-gives.html' title='Discover What Not To Do To Achieve Your Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RnFjOROHl8I/AAAAAAAAACU/M1ntwxtQhNc/s72-c/Thomas+Alva+Edison.bmp' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8860864520339198570</id><published>2007-05-24T19:37:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:48.686-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Do You Believe That You Are Capable?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RlYwn3CWk2I/AAAAAAAAACM/VF5X6WL7was/s1600-h/Thomas+Jefferson,+white+backdrop.bmp"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5068291891998921570" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RlYwn3CWk2I/AAAAAAAAACM/VF5X6WL7was/s200/Thomas+Jefferson,+white+backdrop.bmp" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;font-size:85%;"&gt;- Thomas Jefferson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To achieve the success you envision, you must believe that you are capable of making it happen&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;For some people, this deep-seated belief comes quite naturally. However, for many of us we question our ability to ultimately succeed at accomplishing our dreams. Often, it is because we have allowed ourselves to absorb repeated negative comments over the years, or perhaps we didn't receive a sufficent dose of positive reinforcement in our youth. There are a variety possible reasons as to why we question that we can't or won't follow through with a desired objective.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you are one who needs to regroup and begin the process of taking back control of your outlook toward positive outcomes, the good news is that it is entirely possible&lt;/strong&gt;. The bad news is that successful achievements simply won't happen unless you believe they are possible and make the commitment to passionately pursue your goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It may take awhile to condition yourself to develop a pattern of authentic positive expectancy, but it is most likely easier than you imagine&lt;/strong&gt;. Once you accept that the brain reponds to what it is conditioned to expect, then the process begins to make sense. For example, if one is conditioned to expect failure, one can also be conditioned to expect successful results. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Thomas Jefferson was right on target when he stated that &lt;em&gt;"Nothing can stop the man with the right&lt;/em&gt; &lt;em&gt;mental attitude from achieving his goal."&lt;/em&gt; Over time, he conditioned his mind to expect positive outcomes. Mr. Jefferson developed an attitude of thought that attracted positive results, people, and circumstances that supported the fulfillment of his goals. He nurtured self-belief and self-confidence. Developing "the right mental attitude" for successful outcomes is possible for each of us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If the concept of truly believing that you are capable of achieving a major goal is a bit overwhelming, then begin with a smaller, more manageable objective and progress to a larger goal. Remember, each of us had to crawl before we could walk. &lt;strong&gt;Allow yourself the opportunity to develop a pattern of positive expectancy. With time, your mind will be conditioned to support you as if you have the wind at your back. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Visit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt; for more &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;information&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, resources, complimentary &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;self-assessments&lt;/a&gt;, and the opportunity to take advantage of &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/quickinsight.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;individual coaching&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; support.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8860864520339198570?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8860864520339198570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8860864520339198570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/05/nothing-can-stop-man-with-right-mental.html' title='Do You Believe That You Are Capable?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RlYwn3CWk2I/AAAAAAAAACM/VF5X6WL7was/s72-c/Thomas+Jefferson,+white+backdrop.bmp' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-9064006084117790469</id><published>2007-05-14T10:12:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:50:14.522-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Are Others Trying to Sabotage You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Beware of the Dream-dashers!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;There are people, usually due to their own insecurities, who will directly or indirectly attempt to DASH (sabotage) your dreams.&lt;/strong&gt; They are &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;the dream-dashers&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. If you truly believe in something you want to accomplish (whether for yourself or to aid others), do NOT let the dream-dasher in. They will diminish your vision and squelch your excitement before you realize what is happening.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Sometimes the dream-dasher is disguised as one offering to play "the devil's advocate" (an appropriate moniker), and other times this person will literally try to talk you out of your vision.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;If you have realistically weighed the value of your pursuit and believe whole-heartedly in your dream, then carefully determine with whom and how you will communicate your vision.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is wonderful when you can share exciting news about an idea you have developed. In fact, it is a conscious and subconscious move forward when you can share your vision. The experience of sharing your dream with someone who is positive and supportive will actally strengthen your belief that you can achieve it. Such a trusted individual can often help you expand your vision with even more possibilities.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;When you believe in your vision and you want to see it grow and prosper, engage the people who you know will be nurturing and supportively honest. While they relish your enthusiasm, they will also reveal additional ideas to help crystallize your thinking. This is very different than approaching the person who seems to find strange pleasure in dashing other people's ideas, dreams, and goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Believe in the genius that gave birth to your idea, be cautious as to whom you entrust your precious imagination, and then enthusiastically pursue your dream with insight and planning.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-9064006084117790469?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/9064006084117790469'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/9064006084117790469'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/05/beware-of-dream-dashers-there-are.html' title='Are Others Trying to Sabotage You?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3053069199601469856</id><published>2007-04-22T11:59:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:51:08.750-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>A Dozen Links to Setting and Achieving Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;Setting GOALS and Sticking to the Plan,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;See the BIG Picture and Know what Counts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As a supportive way to stay the course, my clients often refer to previous postings I have placed in this &lt;em&gt;Achievers Blog&lt;/em&gt;. And sometimes they also find inspiration from the quotations found in the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/greatminds.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Great Minds&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; section of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; website. It has been brought to my attention that a quick reference to the blog postings which are specific to goal setting would be helpful to both clients and visitors to this site.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So, here are a dozen links to blog postings that will help you find immediate focus on what really counts when it comes to setting goals to achieve what is important to you.&lt;/strong&gt; These postings and many more can also be easily found in the "Previous Posts" and "Archives" sections shown in the right column of this blog.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_02_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Snapshot for S.M.A.R.T. Goals&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;2-28-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_02_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Are You Moving Toward Your Goal or Away from It?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;2-20-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_04_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More Balance in Your Life Means More Satisfaction.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;4-24-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_05_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What Would You Attempt To Do If You Knew You Could Not Fail?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;5-8-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_06_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why Setting Goals is Imperative.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;6-10-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_07_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Develop Basic Skills for Life Management.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;7-12-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_07_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Attract the Results You Want by Focusing on What You Want.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;7-8-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When Will You Pursue Your Dreams?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;8-2-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_10_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your Choice of Thought and Beliefs Shape Your Life.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;10-30-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_11_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goals Don't Just Materialize, You Make Them Happen!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;11-2-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_11_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;9 Success Boosters You Can Use Today!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;11-14-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006_12_01_archive.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Success-Minded Thinking Usually Requires Change.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;12-17-06&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Visit the &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; website to take advantage of many f'ree resources.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dyamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3053069199601469856?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3053069199601469856'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3053069199601469856'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/04/settng-goals-and-sticking-to-plan-see.html' title='A Dozen Links to Setting and Achieving Goals'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-4596742046090772517</id><published>2007-04-16T09:12:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:48.869-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise the brain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boost brain activity'/><title type='text'>Is Your Brain Being Properly Stimulated?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RiOFp1uuyqI/AAAAAAAAACE/kSuVwn--3yc/s1600-h/The+Brain+1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5054030160684042914" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RiOFp1uuyqI/AAAAAAAAACE/kSuVwn--3yc/s200/The+Brain+1.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Boost Brain Power, &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;expand your potential NOW&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The ability of the human brain is absolutely amazing; and when regularly stimulated, it can serve us beyond our wildest imaginations&lt;/strong&gt;. It has the unlimited capacity to learn, and "flexing" this gray matter is among the healthiest ways to gain clarity of thought, achievement, and longevity of life. The benefits of exercising the brain are enormous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;An excellent way to exercise the brain is by working through cognitively challenging tasks. There are a variety of approaches to accomplish this goal. Included among them are problem-solving exercises such as math calculations, crossword or word puzzles, learning a new language or how to play a musical instrument, or using a computer software program specifically designed to stimulate and improve the thinking processes. When employing any of these activities the most effective results occur when different types of exercises are done randomly. The idea is to avoid doing the same exercise over and over and to challenge the brain with the unexpected.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;There is also an additional way to &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;flex the brain for gain&lt;/a&gt; which can offer a boost to personal and career growth. This approach encompasses specific mental exercises known as "success boosters." These goal-oriented activities can significantly help one overcome obstacles and realize meaningful achievements. This involves learning how to optimally approach, focus, and follow-through on tasks that are critical to experiencing desired results. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Combining the stimulation of problem-solving excercises with success boosters can dramatically boost brain power and expand one's personal and career potential.&lt;/strong&gt; Visit the &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/a&gt; website for more details on how all this is possible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC. Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-4596742046090772517?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4596742046090772517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4596742046090772517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/04/boost-brain-power-now-expand-your.html' title='Is Your Brain Being Properly Stimulated?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RiOFp1uuyqI/AAAAAAAAACE/kSuVwn--3yc/s72-c/The+Brain+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-8427476999916947353</id><published>2007-03-25T13:28:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:52:10.271-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive self-talk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boost brain activity'/><title type='text'>The Right Thoughts and Words Are Powerful</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;Learn how to properly feed your brain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;with right thoughts and words,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;and you will discover a powerful method&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#990000;"&gt;for positively impacting your life forever!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;- &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Tap into the techniques that will accelerate your efforts for greater productivity and achievement. To really accomplish more in less time, you must learn the most powerful steps to ignite effective support for your goals. Visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and experience the tremendous resources available to you. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-8427476999916947353?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8427476999916947353'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/8427476999916947353'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/03/learn-how-to-properly-feed-your-brain.html' title='The Right Thoughts and Words Are Powerful'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-3101071134283359582</id><published>2007-03-15T09:57:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:52:43.373-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quality of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Are You Optimistic or Pessimistic?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;Our thoughts, expectations, and beliefs &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;influence behavior&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Optimistic or Pessimistic?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How have your experiences shaped your perceptions and behavior? Do your thoughts, expectations, and beliefs serve you well and help you to attain what you want in your life?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;If you have conditioned yourself over the years to embrace thoughts and actions that are pessimistic in nature, that deter you from achieving what you truly desire, you are not alone. As we move through life, from childhood into adulthood, we absorb beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors from others and circumstances that may or may not serve us well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Perhaps you have recognized certain beliefs and behaviors that you hold and wish you could see things differently. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This leads us to ask, "Is it possible to change habitual but unproductive ways of thinking and make those changes last?" And, "Can we choose to be different and then actually do it, even after many years of conditioning?" The answer is YES! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;In studies established by Dr. Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania, he discovered two very important findings. First, pessimistic, or helpless, attitudes are not inherited, inborn traits. They are learned and gradually acquired. Second, because they are learned, they can also be unlearned --- and new and more desirable beliefs and behaviors can be established. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Dr. Seligman found that optimists tend to live more successful lives and sometimes live longer as well. They enjoy higher levels of achievement, better health, and have less trouble with depression. People with optimistic thought patterns cope better with setbacks, obstacles, and failure. Most importantly, optimism can be learned and taught. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;When a belief is changed, so does the associated behavior. And a changed behavior leads to different results. Because thoughts, expectations, and beliefs do influence behavior, it is well worth taking the time and effort to focus on any changes you want to address. It is critical to keep in mind that you have the power to retain, modify, or discard the thoughts and beliefs that you possess.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Visit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; and take advantage of the complimentary &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;Self-Assessments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; and all the resources available to you. Find out how having a &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/imaginecoachingpartner.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;personal coach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; can positively impact the achievement of your goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-3101071134283359582?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3101071134283359582'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/3101071134283359582'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/03/our-thoughts-expectations-and-beliefs.html' title='Are You Optimistic or Pessimistic?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-5864623536281575697</id><published>2007-02-19T17:13:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:49.065-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='establish purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insight'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><title type='text'>List Your Reasons-To-Believe (RTB)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdohUs6r8pI/AAAAAAAAABk/aqN_UmxG_IE/s1600-h/Aha+1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5033372173078360722" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdohUs6r8pI/AAAAAAAAABk/aqN_UmxG_IE/s200/Aha+1.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;Reasons to Believe (RTB)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To achieve anything you must believe in your pursuit.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;If you really want to accomplish a goal, to have something that you want to become a reality, then clearly establish your reasons to believe why this is what you want.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Do this exercise:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Make a list of all your Reasons to Believe (RTBs) --- that is, the meaningful reasons&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;why your desire should and will happen&lt;/strong&gt;. Initially, just jot down all your ideas without regard to tiny details or sentence structure, simply get the thrust of your thinking down on paper. Sometimes this excercise can be done very quickly and other times it may be best to allow your thoughts to evolve over time. This process depends on the subject matter and whether this is a new brainstorm or a dream that has been percolating for some time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When you feel that you have established your RTBs for pursuing your desired goal, you will have truly begun the foundation for your commitment to achieve your dream. You will realize, "&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Aha!,&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;so this is why the goal is so important to me&lt;/span&gt;."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;The next step is to crystallize how you are going to accomplish your pursuit. When setting out to create a plan of action, that's when you can begin refining the step-by-step approach toward achieving your goal. Keep your RTBs clearly in mind, do not get bogged down. &lt;strong&gt;Your enthusiasm is paramount, keep moving forward.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For sequential steps in pursuing a goal refer to the&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;November 25, 2006&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt; blog posting&lt;/strong&gt; (see the "Archives" listing to the right). The main point of this posting is for you to understand the importance of clearly establishing your Reasons to Believe why you want your desired outcome. &lt;strong&gt;Once you decide on a goal, be absolutely sure that you know your RTBs --- and always make sure those reasons are your own.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;For assistance in structuring your goals, establishing a plan of action, and realizing your dreams, take advantage of the &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/process.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;resources&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; found at &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidenital&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Experience our &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;complimentary Self-Assessments&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-5864623536281575697?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5864623536281575697'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/5864623536281575697'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/02/reasons-to-believe-rtb-to-achieve.html' title='List Your Reasons-To-Believe (RTB)'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdohUs6r8pI/AAAAAAAAABk/aqN_UmxG_IE/s72-c/Aha+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-1846864316877565536</id><published>2007-02-12T16:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:49.201-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise the brain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transformation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Different Results Require New Thinking</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdDVts6r8oI/AAAAAAAAABY/VL3WbIvo87g/s1600-h/STOP+-+policeman.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5030755764900983426" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdDVts6r8oI/AAAAAAAAABY/VL3WbIvo87g/s200/STOP+-+policeman.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;Stop! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;Wake Up.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Different results &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;require new thinking.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You cannot expect new or different results if you keep the same old habits of thinking.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New and more successful outcomes begin with your choice of thought.&lt;/strong&gt; Like most habits, you can change your thinking patterns. This includes what you think about and the best use of your mental energy. Often, we succumb to thinking patterns which don't really serve us much value.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is easy to become stuck with the same thoughts and beliefs, speaking the same words, and doing the same things over and over&lt;/strong&gt;. It's like an endless loop -- and such a pattern can stifle creativity, learning, and opportunities for a more interesting and adventurous life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You can learn to identify your own habits of thought and recognize where, or if, change is needed&lt;/strong&gt;. But, you must be diligent when making changes, as familiar patterns which are not serving you well are deeply entrenched and new thinking patterns take time to establish. You cannot expect new or different results if you keep the same old habits of thinking!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Perhaps you are in a pattern of over analyzing, maybe to the point of procrastination. Or maybe you have fallen into the habit of thinking in negative terms, rather than positive alternatives. &lt;strong&gt;Because you become what you think about most of the time, it is important to consciously change less productive thinking to habits that clearly contribute to attaining your most desired way of living.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Learn to take &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/takecontrolsolutions.htm"&gt;control&lt;/a&gt;, to find &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/laserin.html"&gt;solutions&lt;/a&gt;, and achieve &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/success.html"&gt;results&lt;/a&gt;. Visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and claim your F'REE copy of a very &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;special report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt; that covers this critical subject -- opt-in for &lt;strong&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Discover Solutions to Challenges and Aspirations &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-1846864316877565536?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1846864316877565536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/1846864316877565536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/02/stop-wake-up.html' title='Different Results Require New Thinking'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/RdDVts6r8oI/AAAAAAAAABY/VL3WbIvo87g/s72-c/STOP+-+policeman.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-2371245381530638111</id><published>2007-01-28T18:53:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:49.369-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise the brain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>The Mind Thirsts for Constructive Input</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rb031nfIa1I/AAAAAAAAABI/DkSmNxCf0y0/s1600-h/Thinking.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5025234153487493970" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rb031nfIa1I/AAAAAAAAABI/DkSmNxCf0y0/s200/Thinking.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:180%;color:#000099;"&gt;Your Mind thirsts for nurturing input and positive outcomes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The mind thirsts for your input and follow-through to achieve.&lt;/strong&gt; This part of you that feels, perceives, and reasons is designed to solve problems and to help you reach the goals that you give it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The thoughts you choose to contribute toward your desired outcome gage the results you derive&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Think of your mind as a clean slate, where you have the opportunity to nourish and empower it with only the healthiest thoughts, beliefs, and intentions. Now, realizing that your mind wants to experience positive outcomes and take its instructions from you, what exactly is it that you want to invest so that you can experience the greatest return for your efforts?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your mind holds a tremendous desire to be positively stimulated and to experience the feeling of success&lt;/strong&gt;. In the words of Thomas Edison, "If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Take advantage of the outstanding &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;resources&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and complimentary &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;self-assessments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; offered by &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Discover how &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;personal coaching&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; will positively impact your life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Discover Solutions to Challenges and Aspirations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-2371245381530638111?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2371245381530638111'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/2371245381530638111'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/01/your-mind-thirsts-for-positive-input.html' title='The Mind Thirsts for Constructive Input'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Rb031nfIa1I/AAAAAAAAABI/DkSmNxCf0y0/s72-c/Thinking.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-4775503259225649488</id><published>2007-01-16T15:59:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T22:44:49.508-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='visualization'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='focus'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transformation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>Does Your Self-Image Need a Makeover?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Ra09WXfIavI/AAAAAAAAAAM/gXDhoYLPl4M/s1600-h/People+facing+issues.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5020736614058978034" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Ra09WXfIavI/AAAAAAAAAAM/gXDhoYLPl4M/s200/People+facing+issues.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;Nurture Self-Image for Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;Each of us has our own native abilities, signature strengths, learning styles, and personality traits. Does the image you hold of yourself recognize these factors? Do you see your uniqueness, respect it, and nurture it? Do you feel a sense of pride, confidence, and purpose?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;As you move through your daily life, your self-image can support or sabotage your efforts.&lt;/strong&gt; It can mean the difference between feeling inspired or apathetic and taking action or remaining stagnate. An immediate way to begin addressing this issue is to take note of the mental pictures you hold of yourself. Are those images in alignment with what you actually desire for your life? If they are, that's wonderful -- continue to nurture and support yourself. Don't take your present state for granted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;However, if after an honest self-appraisal, you feel a change is required to match the self-image you want, then figure out what change is necessary and make a commitment to accomplish it.&lt;/strong&gt; Mentally see the change you want and its successful completion in as much detail as possible. While taking daily action to make the change, continue to repeatedly visualize your desired outcome, refining it as you go along. &lt;strong&gt;If you are persistent in this process, you will notice a shift in how you perceive yourself. Your self-image will experience a positive transformation, your confidence level will increase, and you will generate enthusiasm and momentum to accomplish more in your life. Learn to &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/laserin.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;laser in&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; on what really counts.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;See Page 6&lt;/strong&gt; of &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use today! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;---&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;Click here&lt;/a&gt; for this F'REE &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Special Report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;------&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-4775503259225649488?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4775503259225649488'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/4775503259225649488'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2007/01/nurture-self-image-for-success-each-of.html' title='Does Your Self-Image Need a Makeover?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/Ra09WXfIavI/AAAAAAAAAAM/gXDhoYLPl4M/s72-c/People+facing+issues.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116639113526691326</id><published>2006-12-17T15:59:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:56:20.132-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Take Control of Your Mind and Life Now</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/6091/2285/1600/614411/Conference%20-%203%20people.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/6091/2285/200/257614/Conference%20-%203%20people.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Success-Minded Thinking&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Usually Requires Change&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To achieve "success-minded" thinking there is a major challenge worth overcoming. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;As children, we start out with innocence, a sense of invincibility, and the natural ability to imagine exciting possibilities. Then, as we grow and enter society we are increasingly surrounded by people bombarding us with limiting beliefs and images.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Little by little our belief that anything is possible is often whittled away. Some people are fortunate enough to slip through the deluge of the "can't - don't - no way" mentality. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;However, most of us, as we grow into adulthood, find a time in our lives when we must choose between being inundated by self-defeating patterns or to take control and consciously decide to reverse the damage. &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;Optimally, the choice is to participate in successful ways to nourish the mind and reach for imaginative and ambitious goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Consider this exercise:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; Make a list of all the things you believed in before you were told they were impossible. Is it time to bring some of your dreams or creative ideas back to the surface? How will you attack, nourish, and pursue your imaginative possibilites now?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For constructive &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;help&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to accelerate your Success-Minded thinking, visit the &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;website&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;dedicated to your personal and career &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/success.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;Take advantage of F'REE &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Self-Assessments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and loads of supportive resources. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116639113526691326?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116639113526691326'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116639113526691326'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/12/success-minded-thinking-usually.html' title='Take Control of Your Mind and Life Now'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116518718589586785</id><published>2006-12-03T17:45:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:56:59.451-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accepting responsibility'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quality of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Are You Taking Responsibility for Success?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Accept 100% Responsibility&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;for Y&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;our Decisions, Actions, and Results&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"&gt;" To decide, to be at the level of choice, is to take responsibility for your life and to be in control of your life."&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;- Abbie M. Dale&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;To experience a purposeful, balanced, and fulfilled life, it is imperative to accept 100% responsibility for the choices you make&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. This includes what you think, the beliefs you hold, the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the results you derive from those activities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;There is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live -- that person is YOU&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;"The world rewards those who take responsibility for their success." &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;- Curt Gerrish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;When things turn sour and you blame others for your downfall, that's a dead end road. However, if you have accepted responsibility for your actions and their results, and events do not succeed as you had planned, you then have the opportunity to learn from your trials and errors. Thus, y&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;ou are ahead of the game when you try again. And, you will be determined to try again -- your resolve will be even stronger. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;By accepting full responsibility for your decisions, actions, and results, your approach going into any endeavor is optimized for the potential of a more positive outcome&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; And, when the outcome is successful, you have the privilege to reap all the well-deserved benefits. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;To &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;learn more&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; about this subject and 8 other related topics, visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidenital&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and request your F'REE copy of &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use today! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;See pages 2, 4, and 5 for the topic of accepting responsibility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright -- all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116518718589586785?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116518718589586785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116518718589586785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/12/accept-100-responsibility-for-your.html' title='Are You Taking Responsibility for Success?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116448524723533809</id><published>2006-11-25T14:21:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:57:32.480-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='establish purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>You Must Be Proactive to Achieve!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/6091/2285/1600/635976/Compass%20-%20blue.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/6091/2285/200/577988/Compass%20-%20blue.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;Goals don't just materialize,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;"&gt;you make them happen!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Successful results occur in our personal lives and our careers when we are proactive in achieving our goals&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. While these goals may be a series of tiny steps or quantum leaps, they do not simply pop out of thin air. When striving to accomplish a meaningful objective, the path is much clearer and easier to pursue when it is well constructed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The person who has taken the time to learn the process of developing and implementing inspiring and ambitious goals is the one most likely to bask in the success of reaching their objective.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Goals establish purpose and promote the mental attitude to accelerate meaningful and worthwhile objectives in our lives&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. They lift, motivate and expand our view of what is possible. And, equally important, authentic and concrete tangible goals, backed by commitment and plans to achieve them, keep us moving forward --- even when we are distressed or things seem insurmountable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;A well conceived goal and an enthusiastic attitude to match provide clarity for concentrating on both the mental and physical energy necessary to realize expectations. &lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Without definitive goals, hopes, dreams, and best intentions are only randomly addressed --- which usually leads to "hit or miss" results&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When developing and implementing a goal:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Define exactly what is to be accomplished.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Understand why the goal is important.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Do NOT proceed with a goal which is vague and/or does not inspire action.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Establish both short and long term goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Prioritize multiple goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Create a clear and specific plan-of-action.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Establish clear criteria to measure progress.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Use the five senses to embed the goal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Believe the goal is important and achieving it is deserved.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Find ways to repeatedly and frequently bring the goal to mind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/success.html"&gt;Ask for help&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Revisit the written goal periodically for possible revision.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Achieve the goal, celebrate, and set a new goal!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;To &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;learn more&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; about developing and implementing your goals, &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/contactus.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;contact&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/meetdrshaefer.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;David Schaefer&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116448524723533809?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116448524723533809'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116448524723533809'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/11/goals-dont-just-materialize-you-make.html' title='You Must Be Proactive to Achieve!'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116353879066486221</id><published>2006-11-14T15:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:26:07.021-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quality of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Accelerate with 9 Success Boosters</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/Flex%20the%20Brain%20for%20Gain%20-%20LARGE%20image.0.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/320/Flex%20the%20Brain%20for%20Gain%20-%20LARGE%20image.0.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;you can use today!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#333333;"&gt;- &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;James Allen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt; -&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;When you take control and use your mental faculties to their best advantage, you discover significant ways to improve your path toward achievement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Take the first step right now and secure your F'REE copy of an important new &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Special Report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use today!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; will definitely advance the attainment of your goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Find out now what &lt;em&gt;Successful People&lt;/em&gt; already know! &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Click &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and securely opt-in for your copy of this very &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;special report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116353879066486221?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116353879066486221'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116353879066486221'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/11/9-success-boosters-you-can-use-today.html' title='Accelerate with 9 Success Boosters'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116352674237436908</id><published>2006-11-14T11:47:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:27:26.396-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='performance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='exercise the brain'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><title type='text'>Learn to Exercise Your Brain</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/Flex%20the%20Brain%20for%20Gain%20report%20cover.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/320/Flex%20the%20Brain%20for%20Gain%20report%20cover.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:180%;color:#660000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This special report will spark &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;the thought processes &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#000099;"&gt;to achieve the success you envision.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:times new roman;"&gt;"The ability of the human brain is absolutely amazing; and when nurtured, it can serve us beyond our wildest imaginations. It has an unlimited capacity to learn, and 'flexing' this gray matter is among the healthiest ways to gain clarity of thought, achievement, and longevity of life. The benefits of exercising the brain are enormous."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;There are a variety of approaches to stimulate brain-enhancing activity. Included among them are problem solving exercises and specially designed computer software programs. And then there is the approach which also advances one's personal and career goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/success.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can be measured on many different levels and achieving it is a never-ending process that runs through all areas of our lives. But, when you &lt;em&gt;take action&lt;/em&gt; to apply the insights and technques revealed in the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;special report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, you will achieve a clearer understanding of the results you want and how to achieve them. Your perceptions and thinking patterns will find greater clarity and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;your brain's performance and general well-being will vastly improve.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;To secure your &lt;strong&gt;F'REE&lt;/strong&gt; copy of &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;today!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;simply &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;click here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Discover Solutions to Challenges and Aspirations&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116352674237436908?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116352674237436908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116352674237436908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/11/flex-brain-for-gain-this-special.html' title='Learn to Exercise Your Brain'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116319742562842826</id><published>2006-11-10T17:21:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:29:00.902-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='performance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quotations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><title type='text'>Access to 450 Inspirational Quotes Now</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/Be%20yourself%20...%20%28large%29.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/200/Be%20yourself%20...%20%28large%29.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;450 Inspirational Quotes &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;from Great Minds&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"Words are the most powerful drug used by mankind."&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;- Rudyard Kipling&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;It is absolutely amazing how one's perspective and personal motivation can be transformed when absorbing the captured thoughts of great minds.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Like hearing a particular piece of music, just the right words at the right time, can catapult the mind to revitalize thinking and replenish the spirit. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Having access to &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/greatminds.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;the insights and wisdom of others&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can often provide subtle, if not dramatic, positive guidance when it counts the most. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; invites you to be transformed into the world of GREAT MINDS, renewed thinking, and realized dreams. Easily select from among &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/greatminds.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;450 outstanding quotations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and experience the inspiration for your next great decision. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Go to &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/greatminds.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com/greatminds.htm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to access the &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Inspirational Quotes from Great Minds. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-----&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;While visiting Coaching Confidential, be sure to request your copy of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;NEW Special Report&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use today! &lt;/strong&gt;This report is absolutely &lt;em&gt;F'REE.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116319742562842826?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116319742562842826'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116319742562842826'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/11/450-inspirational-quotes-from-great.html' title='Access to 450 Inspirational Quotes Now'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-116222084140058552</id><published>2006-10-30T10:33:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:58:19.346-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='integrity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><title type='text'>What Are You Attracting to Your Life?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Your Choice of Thought &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;and Beliefs Shape Your Life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;What you think about and believe is what you attract to your life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. Clearly, thinking positively and actions of integrity beget the opportunity for more positive results. Likewise, negative, limiting or defeating thoughts beget the likelihood of negative results. Have you heard others declare that you should be careful what you wish for (say or think), as you may very well get it? There is truth in those words, and it can work for or against you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;The way that you interpret or explain things to yourself is critical in determining who you are as a person and the outcomes you experience&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt; This process is under your control. It is your choice whether your thoughts are constructive and effective or detrimental.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Since choice of thought and beliefs largely shape the life you live, it is wise not to leave this to happenstance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You can have thoughts of self-defeating beliefs, magnified fears, and other limiting habits that will only hold you back. Or, you can be authentically positive and passionate to accomplish what is beneficial and important to you, and attract that to you --- this holds true for all facets of life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Visit &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;CoachingConfidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt; to take advantage of extensive resources and F'REE &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/selfassessments.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;self-assessments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; for personal and career insight. &lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/gettingstarted.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Click here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; for quick start support.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright 2006 - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-116222084140058552?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116222084140058552'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/116222084140058552'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/10/your-choice-of-thought-and-beliefs.html' title='What Are You Attracting to Your Life?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115903782670878565</id><published>2006-09-23T13:41:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T15:59:21.297-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='opportunity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='transformation'/><title type='text'>Control &gt; Solutions &gt; Results!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;--&lt;/strong&gt; Albert Einstein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;What concerns are sabotaging your success?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;Overwhelmed, stressed?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Life disjointed, out of balance?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Over committed?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Self-confidence shaky?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Stuck by fear and self-doubt?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Fulfilling others expectations?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Struggling with self-discipline?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Goals going nowhere?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Confused, disorganized?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Repeating past mistakes?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;No time management?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Trouble articulating desires?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;No passion for life or work?&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;You have the power to transform difficulty to a path of inspiration, vitality, and opportunity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;When you learn to take control, you find solutions, which leads to results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the process, you discover how to overcome doubt, mental clutter, tolerations, resistance, and self-limiting obstacles that undermine, distract, and sabotage your personal growth and actions for success. And, you also find that mistakes and setbacks can turn into extraordinary learning experiences by using change and challenge to your advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is important, however, to realize that if you are going to transform from a challenging course to a path of positive patterns, the shift must originate from within you.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To positively change and grow you must truly understand that success or failure is a reflection of your inner world --- your values, beliefs, knowledge, the way you think, and the choices you make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you tap into more clarity of thought, you begin to identify the gap between where you are and where you want to be. Then, the steps you need to take to achieve change become more apparent. But, for your action to be constructive, you must be willing, ready, and motivated to make the necessary commitment and changes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Once you decide to earnestly move forward with a plan-of-action, you are then transforming "difficulty" into "opportunity."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Visit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000099;"&gt;www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; to take advantage of extensive resources and F'REE self-assessments for personal and career insight.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright 2006 - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115903782670878565?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115903782670878565'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115903782670878565'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/09/in-middle-of-difficulty-lies.html' title='Control &gt; Solutions &gt; Results!'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115712980619717327</id><published>2006-09-01T11:30:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T16:00:09.302-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success-minded thinking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='persistence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='humor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='achievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mental attitude'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='einstein'/><title type='text'>In The Middle of Difficulty Lies Opportunity</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/Albert%20Einstein,%20Father%20of%20Relativity.jpg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/320/Albert%20Einstein%2C%20Father%20of%20Relativity.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Persistence &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;and Humor&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Key Elements toward Achievement&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;Was this guy an Einstein?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;"Nothing would ever become of you," commented a high school teacher.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;As a student, throughout his education, he cut classes, displayed lack of obedience, and was constantly joking.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;He managed a 4.91 average out of 6 in his final university grades (considered almost average).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;As a young man, he seriously struggled with job success and finances.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Early on, he published a few not especially impressive physics articles.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Yet, Albert Einstein became the most famous scientist of the 20th century, thanks to his groundbreaking theory of relativity --- which laid the foundation for much of modern physics theory. &lt;/strong&gt;His work had profound impact on everything from quantum theory to nuclear power and the atom bomb. And, he won the Nobel Prize for his work on the photoelectric effect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Turns out that this man who, in his earlier days, was viewed as less than impressive and struggled with serious difficulties in jobs, finances, and family matters, knew the meaning of persistence. And, calling upon his gift of humor throughout his life helped to maintain perspective.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;These prolific words came from Albert Einstein:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;"Know where to find the information and how to use it &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;-- that's the secret of success."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;Visit &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Coaching Confidential&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to secure your F'REE copy of the &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;Special Report&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Flex the Brain for Gain: 9 SUCCESS BOOSTERS you can use today!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright 2006 - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115712980619717327?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115712980619717327'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115712980619717327'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/09/persistence-and-humor-key-elements.html' title='In The Middle of Difficulty Lies Opportunity'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115599965515380752</id><published>2006-08-19T09:37:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:45:50.603-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plan-of-action'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal coaching'/><title type='text'>Access 18 Huge Benefits of Personal Coaching</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Struggling to Advance Your Personal and Career Success? Learn How to Grow and Prosper Both Personally and Professionally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Experience the tremendous value and RESULTS derived when working with a personal coach: &lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;--- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://coachingconfidential.com/18huge.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://CoachingConfidential.com/18huge.htm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;Here are 8 Results (BENEFITS) of Coaching for Success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Use your mind, time and energy wisely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Stop feeling overwhelmed and stressed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Tap into knowledge, experience and skill&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Invigorate your passion for life and work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Generate inspiration, focus, and effective action&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Learn proven methods that reap results&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Experience immediate and long-term benefits&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Realize a huge return on your investment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For more information on the BENEFITS of coaching, visit&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#ffffff;"&gt;X&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115599965515380752?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115599965515380752'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115599965515380752'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/08/struggling-to-advance-your-personal.html' title='Access 18 Huge Benefits of Personal Coaching'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115515986889895043</id><published>2006-08-09T16:16:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T16:00:48.519-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time zone helper'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time saver'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><title type='text'>Complimentary Time-Conversation Table</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Time Zone Helper&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;is a super time-saver!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;If you regularly travel different time zones or consistently call long distance, check out &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;The Time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Zone Helper&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; offered f'ree by &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;em&gt;www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; . Our clients and Blog readers swear by this &lt;strong&gt;easy-to-use time conversion chart&lt;/strong&gt;. This reference source is a super time-saver. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;Click here: &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/TimeZoneHelper.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com/TimeZoneHelper.html&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and create a shortcut to your computer desktop. Simply click on this link, then right click your mouse, select "Create Shortcut," and click "OK."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Be sure to tell your friends and associates about &lt;strong&gt;The Time Zone Helper&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;offered f'ree at &lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115515986889895043?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115515986889895043'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115515986889895043'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/08/time-zone-helper-is-super-time-saver.html' title='Complimentary Time-Conversation Table'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115453052182710984</id><published>2006-08-02T09:37:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T16:03:52.544-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive outcome'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal coaching'/><title type='text'>Take Action Now to Achieve Your Dreams</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/A%20recent%20photo.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/320/A%20recent%20photo.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;When will you pursue your dreams?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Eventually tomorrow will be too late . . . and living with regret just isn't living.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;More often than you can imagine, simply committing to take action toward your desire will get the process moving in the right direction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;If you really want to achieve a long sought after dream, go for it. The "how to make it happen" can be figured out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Dr. David Schaefer is an extraordinary coach. He's been able to grab hold of my dream and move me toward my goal with creative ideas and a visionary focus on the macro view of my project. I am especially greatful for the times when I have hit the wall of doubt and he has kept me believing in my dream." - Steven Brand, LCSW, PC&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115453052182710984?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115453052182710984'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115453052182710984'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/08/when-will-you-pursue-your-dreams.html' title='Take Action Now to Achieve Your Dreams'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image 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scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nourish the mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='boost brain activity'/><title type='text'>Powerful Self-Talk Techniques</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Boost positive BRAIN activity&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;with effective Self-Talk&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Learn how to properly feed your brain with right thoughts&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;and words, and you will discover a powerful method&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;for positively impacting your life forever!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;- CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;The effective use of Self-Talk, silently or aloud, dramatically reaches the subconscious mind ... for positive, lasting change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;You actually activate healthy, productive chemicals and electrical responses in the brain that spontaneously work for you ... instead of against you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Positive Self-Talk gives you the essential, action-focused means to make the changes you want and need ... even if you have not been able to accomplish that in the past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;You learn a practical, easy way to live your life by active intent ... rather than passive acceptance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;You strengthen your will, beef up your success-oriented self-concept, and gain deep-rooted self-assurance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;For every habit you want to change, there is the right Self-Talk to help advance that change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Visit this website to learn more:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#ffffff;"&gt;X&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115392759423063242?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115392759423063242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115392759423063242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/07/boost-positive-brain-activity-with.html' title='Powerful Self-Talk Techniques'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115272440427126304</id><published>2006-07-12T11:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T16:05:41.336-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='action-focused'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='optimized endeavor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='solutions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='quality of life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='proactive'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='life management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal coaching'/><title type='text'>Learn to Truly Manage Your Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:130%;color:#000099;"&gt;Develop Basic Skills &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;for &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Life Management&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;Learn how to implement sound strategies to accomplish what you really want from your life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; You can develop the basic skills, tools and the focus to establish a clear and strong foundation for positive change. And, in the process, you will forever change the way you perceive, make decisions, and succeed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;x&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Each of us mentally, behaviorally, and physiologically program ourselves to go through life in a particular way. Yet, we can find that we are not truly satisfied with the path we are on. That is when we need to realistically ask if our current program is working. If not, then it is time to consider taking action in a way that will serve you best.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Enriching your life with skills for more effective and abundant living is always the right choice. It gives you the opportunity to address significant issues, such as:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;breaking down barriers that cause indecision and inaction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;learning to clarify values, purpose, integrity, and goals&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;invigorate your passion for life and work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;learning to successfully solve life's challenges&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;self-actualize, set your life on a course of greatest value for you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;implement techniques that promote confidence and happiness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;begin to truly experience the life you want to live&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For more information on developing basic skills for life management, &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;go to: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/prospecialty.htm"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com/prospecialty.htm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;x&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#ffffff;"&gt;x&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Discover Solutions to Challenges and Aspirations&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115272440427126304?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115272440427126304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115272440427126304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/07/develop-basic-skills-for-life.html' title='Learn to Truly Manage Your Life'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-115091544067457012</id><published>2006-06-21T12:50:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-08-13T16:07:14.862-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='insight'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><title type='text'>How Do You Make Life Choices?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/1600/Iceberg%20Metaphor.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6091/2285/320/Iceberg%20Metaphor.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;CHOICES: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Go Deeper than the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Tip of the Iceberg&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;To truly understand and appreciate your challenges and your dreams, you must see beneath what only shows on the surface.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;The greatest part of who we are and what our potential offers us is not always evident. You must go deeper, below the surface, to discover your true feelings, desires, and capabilities. Like an iceberg, the greatest part of who you are and what you have to offer does not readily reveal itself unless you choose to look deeper within. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;So often, we make choices with a fraction of the information we have available to us. Such choices become the basis of future decisions, and we may later find that we failed to adequately consider the depth of our true abilities and options. This can lead to a very unfortunate predicament that is often not easily fixed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;When faced with challenges or when deciding to pursue a goal, it is the wise choice to thoroughly consider as many factors as possible before taking action --- especially when future decisions, and results, will be based on the action you take.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;As in this iceberg metaphor, it is important to realize that what you readily see when making choices is usually only the tip of the iceberg. Go deeper, below the surface, to capture all the information that is available to you when making important choices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Understand that your choices drive your actions, and your actions drive your results!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;For more indepth information visit:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://discovermilliondollardesire.com/"&gt;http://DiscoverMillionDollarDesire.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;color:#000000;"&gt;Photo composite by Ralph Clevenger&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-115091544067457012?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115091544067457012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/115091544067457012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/06/choices-go-deeper-than-tip-of-iceberg.html' title='How Do You Make Life Choices?'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-114994990726117842</id><published>2006-06-10T08:58:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:54:18.386-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perspective'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clarity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='establish purpose'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal growth'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><title type='text'>Goals Provide Momentum Against Odds</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why Setting Goals is Imperative&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Condensed from &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Mind Accelerator,&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Technology for the Brain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;Copyright by Taylor Andrew Wilson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goals charge us with desire and work to push us outside our comfort zones, causing us to challenge ourselves and expand. They give us the momentum to advance even when things are distressing or seemingly insurmountable.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;The individual with strong goals and a clear image of desire causes these elements, through repetition, to become deeply embedded with his or her subconscious mind and is therefore enabled, due to the mind's generative and sustaining power, to attain his/her goals in the least amount of time and with the least amount of physical exertion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;They (strong, clear goals) accelerate our subconscious activity, harnessing its powers of achievement, causing us to unconsciously zero in on our target 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Little by little you achieve actualization, as all your abilities and mental powers become engaged to that end&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is shocking, but in North America today:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Only 5% of the population has formed goals for their future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Only 1% have actually taken the effort to write their goals down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Nearly 95% of the people in our society do not have clear, concise, written goals.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;The average person spends more time planning their vacation than planning their lives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;Without goals and plans to reach them, you are like a ship without a rudder, sometimes drifting aimlessly and sometimes going full steam ahead in random directions. &lt;strong&gt;Those without purpose accomplish very little over a&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;lifetime.&lt;/strong&gt; They tend to be very busy, always moving, going, spending, doing. They confuse busyness with accomplishment --- &lt;strong&gt;busy people, with no goals or direction, only accomplish busyness.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Goals can only be achieved once they're conceived. If you haven't created your goals, then you're taking action in random areas of existence and completing random tasks, not accomplishing and advancing your potential.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal." &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;--&lt;/strong&gt; Thomas Jefferson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;http://www.coachingconfidential.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Inspiration Dynamics LLC, Copyright - all rights reserved&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/22472361-114994990726117842?l=coachingconfidential.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/114994990726117842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/22472361/posts/default/114994990726117842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://coachingconfidential.blogspot.com/2006/06/why-setting-goals-is-imperative.html' title='Goals Provide Momentum Against Odds'/><author><name>David Schaefer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14534737077661803215</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://bp3.blogger.com/_Fsxwe4bDlEs/R3QzY1GKrgI/AAAAAAAAADs/Z-7_gcqtR7k/S220/David+-+BOA+head+shot.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22472361.post-114779239102677113</id><published>2006-05-16T08:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-22T13:55:45.565-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='realize expectations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='accelerate success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choice of thought'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='actions = results'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='commitment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resource access'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='positive expectancy'/><title type='text'>Do You Have Postive Expectancy?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Positive Expectancy:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;an absolutely crucial ingredient &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;to accomplishment &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;and personal success&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;"Our BELIEF at the beginning of a doubtful undertaking &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;is the only thing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;that insures the successful outcome &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;of our venture."&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;-&lt;/strong&gt; William James&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This week, next month, and the year ahead will unfold as you expect it will.&lt;/strong&gt; In other words, if your outlook and belief system is positive and you genuinely expect like results, you are certainly going to realize greater personal fulfillment. This does not mean that your pursuit will always be a bed of roses just because you positively expect that outcome --- but &lt;strong&gt;positive expectancy begets positive results more of the time and provides the foundation for overcoming challenges along the way&lt;em&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; Adversely, if you approach your life with the attitude that nothing will improve or that you are destined for a "Murphy's Law" (what can go wrong will go wrong) existence, that's pretty much what you can expect. &lt;strong&gt;It boils down to a powerful choice: positive expectancy or negative expectancy.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The person who practices the attitude and life of positive expectancy becomes proficient at turning problems into solutions, embraces responsibility as opportunity, and attacks adversity as an opporutunty for learning and strengthening abilities and resolve. The depth of your success greatly depends upon your commitment to your positive expectations.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;What components contribute to Positive Expectancy?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1&lt;/strong&gt;. Clearly decide on what it is that you desire --- be precise, write down details.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.&lt;/strong&gt; Use your imagination and consistently visualize the results you want.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.&lt;/strong&gt; Truly BELIEVE in your pursuit, no matter how many challenges are ahead.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4.&lt;/strong&gt; Enthusiastically take action and doggedly overcome obstacles.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000099;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5.&lt;/strong&gt; Be positive, expect the results you want.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#ffffff;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Arial;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.coachingconfidential.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;http://www.CoachingConfidential.com&lt;/stro
